Humans...are animals. Animals have two things they live for...food and procreate. Many animals mate with one "partner" per year, and have a new one the next.
If humans were meant to be with one person, then people would NOT cheat.
Now, do ALL people cheat? No. I dont. I never have. However, i have had THOUGHTS of cheating. When i jerk off, im not thinking of my lady...but i do love her.
The idea of mongamy is RESTRAINING. Some people are better at it than others. But....it is STILL not "natural" as a generalization of humans, even if their are exceptions.
yes, i see no reason to cheat, because if i am turned on by someone else then i will not be with the other person any longer, which is the reason i've only had one boyfriend before.
i am not turned on by images of people that i do not know well, maybe thats just me though.
I always believed that marriage was just a tool that was used by the government and further pushed by religions to hold social control and a good economy.
But what i am trying to say, that there will always be a scientific explanation to all that there is, and a political one as well, but what about when you know of these things? And what about the fact that you cannot explain how your own belief system entirely changed with a certain person that you met? Can you call it magic? Or is there just another scientific explanation with it?
LOL
You think wrong.
Humans are opportunistic monogamists AT BEST. Humans are naturally inclined to be in relationships with one another, but we are also programemd with millions of years of evolution telling us to fuck more people lol.
This is simple math here. We are genetic products of our ancestors. If there are two people, once of which is 100% monagomous and 1 is a "cheater".... generally speaking, which person is going to have more offspring? The cheater. That means that over the many many years of evolution the cheaters genes are going to be more succesful, have more offspring, and eventuall spread its DNA throughout the species like a virus.
I don't think hardly anyone educated on the subject would believe that humans are monogamous by nature.
If you are seriously interested in learning more about this stuff read Sperm Wars or The Red Queen. Both are crazy and will totaly fuck with a lot of your preconceived notions about human nature and our social conditioning.
oh i understand, and I actually aknowledged that fact LONG LONG ago.
and i wasn't saying that you are monogamous by nature, i'm saying can it be nature for 'anything' to happen?
You can ask my mom for yourself, i told her when i was 14, 15, 16 and 17 that i was never going to get married...That there is no way in hell that i will allow myself to be TIED DOWN by someone.
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its just like i said to i fucked your mom, is there a scientific explanation for a relationship that makes you abandon all that you've believed in, without fear of the unknown? How come we must always try to predict what we are scientifically inclined to do?
Ill look up those books to see how much of it talks about what i've already contemplated, and what it can explain, but to tell you the truth, i am a double sagitarrius (moon and sun in sagitarrius), and its never been truer, i am obsessed with freedom and the ability to travel, so if anyone should vouch for the single life, it should be me, but somehow my whole world was flipped upside down with someone i met in a very unconventional way.
Is this all scientifically explained as well?