OK ABOUT MARRIAGE PERIOD I'LL STATE MY PIECE... AND LETS DISCUSS!
- Thread starter Unkut Yola
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Exactly! Yall can say I'm retarded or whatever but this was the first serious relationship I have been in. I've been with her since I was 19. She was 24 when we met and I was duped by an older woman. Now I'm married to her and got a son. Yeah I've made stupid moves but this is territory I've never been in before and hope I never will again. I Loved this woman!!!! How many of you that call me a moron and idiot and every other name in the book have ever been genuinely in love. Love is blind people. Yeah I got issues, but who don't. I'm in pain for christ sake. If you have never been serious with a women before, then you don't know what it's like to have this shit done to you. I hope none of you go through what I've been through.
We lived together 4 2 years before we got married, but since we got married, she changed soo much, and wanted me to change too. If I had known I had less than a year to perfect being a husband than I woulda tried harder. She packed her stuff in the Explorer today and came over and let me say goodbye to my son and took a video with her cell to play for him b4 bed everynight. I kissed her and told her I loved her and asked her to pray, then said goodbye. She is as of now halfway to Kansas and I don't know if I will see her again. I will miss her and my son, but what can I do? she is gonna do what she wants to do regardless of how I feel, so what's the point of trying to stop her?
Yeah I saw signs but I ignored them, thinking that the crap about her I didn't like would go away after we got married, but then again that was stupid in itself. My father who I haven't seen in 20 years has offered me a bus ticket to where he is at. That would mean me selling or giving away everything but my computer and my studio stuff and jumping on a bus to victoria TX which is about 1 day 11 hrs. to get there from Casper, WY. What would you guys do? The bus leaves on Friday. Should I do it and start over somewhere else or stay and try to work things out here? I really wanna see my dad but don't want to leave all my stuff. I'm lost.
lmao @ redrum..
u would really wanna start over some where else with some stranger u never met and probably lose contact with ur son? a kid needs both their mom and dad around. if she dont wanna let u see him or somethin ( i didnt take the time to go back and see if u had issues but u probably do ) get a lawyer and demand shared custody atleast... dont just leave ur son fo real.
u would really wanna start over some where else with some stranger u never met and probably lose contact with ur son? a kid needs both their mom and dad around. if she dont wanna let u see him or somethin ( i didnt take the time to go back and see if u had issues but u probably do ) get a lawyer and demand shared custody atleast... dont just leave ur son fo real.
oh yea and another thing. lets say if u were to go. u also gotta think.
1. would u have a place to stay
2. if not do u have someone reliable to stay with till u get up on ur feet
3. do u have any idea with the unemployment rate is out there
4. if u have a degree in something is that a good place to go
5. would u be able to see ur kid on a daily basis ( if u care )
6. if u go and it doesnt work out would u have a way to get back home
7. would u even have a home to come back to.
which u said ud sell all u got and leave... come on man dont do that to urself u always gotta have a plan b. imo
if i was in ur situation i wouldnt trust no stranger to go no where specially with out my son. but thats just me i aint judgin u or nothin
1. would u have a place to stay
2. if not do u have someone reliable to stay with till u get up on ur feet
3. do u have any idea with the unemployment rate is out there
4. if u have a degree in something is that a good place to go
5. would u be able to see ur kid on a daily basis ( if u care )
6. if u go and it doesnt work out would u have a way to get back home
7. would u even have a home to come back to.
which u said ud sell all u got and leave... come on man dont do that to urself u always gotta have a plan b. imo
if i was in ur situation i wouldnt trust no stranger to go no where specially with out my son. but thats just me i aint judgin u or nothin
damn. so in the birth certificate she used her husbands last name or wut? nah foo fuck that thats some bullshit. get a fucking lawyer and tell em ur the biological father. take her to court and demand a dna test. then have it corrected. she cant just take him if hes ur blood. u gettin played if shes usin that bullshit as an excuse. fo real find a good lawyer and send her ass to court. u cant just leave ur son like that.
I have fought for the last 4 mo. trying to get rights to my son. There is only a handful of lawyers that will even touch this case because in Wyoming, the statute of limitations to challenge a presumed father's parental rights is 2 years. On top of that when they got a divorce, she signed custody to him over to the ex without my consent and yes I'm the father listed on the birth certificate. They all want $3000 down and if you don't know Casper, WY, unless you are a Doctor or work in the Oilfield, you are broke. As far as leaving, she already did. She packed all of her and the kid's clothes and took off to her cousin's house in McPherson Kansas!!! We already are almost 1000 miles apart. Hell, Victoria, TX is closer by 200 miles.
I've exhausted all my options I swear to god, I already filed a motion for genentic testing and the judge told me no. I can't afford to spend $3000 without the promise of getting anything changed. She cheated on me about a month ago with some 30ish dude there in Kansas and had the nerve to come up her asking me for condoms to take back with her. I'm telling you, I'm fin to do some stupid ish if I keep beeing around this W.O.R.M. Woman of Random Men.