OK ABOUT MARRIAGE PERIOD I'LL STATE MY PIECE... AND LETS DISCUSS!
- Thread starter Unkut Yola
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Thanks to all of you for the advice. I absolutely want to get a lawyer but the cheapest one in these parts wants $1000 up front and she guarantees me custody. She since has taken off to somewhere in Kansas. Possibly KCMO cuz that's where her aunt Connie and her husband was cookin' that crizz and just got hemmed up for it, but her aunt connie is out on a $1,000,000 bond and last I heard she was sitting on a grip of doe and was planning on bouncing out the country and I have no Idea where in KC she lived. My step dad had the same situation happen to him when he was my age with his first wife and they had 5 kids!!!! He never even as much as yelled at her and she went to court and said he COULD do something and felt her life was in danger and the judge granted a protection order and told him he could not even as much as call her to check on them. Luckily his dad is an oil tycoon and has millions and got him the same lawyer that I talked to, that's how I got my free consultation, but she wants my $1000 up front with no payments. So I am ****ed. My paycheck ended up going through and the bank ate the whole dam thing. I've since stopped my direct deposit so I get my checks handed to me starting in 2 weeks but I got no money for rent, gas, etc. Plus, I still got to get a phone in my name and I already owe both phne companies in town a good 3 bills apiece. My hands are tied!!! She has been calling my brother trying to get him to hand me the phone and I AIN'T DOIN' IT!!!!! The protection order states that I cannot make any contact whatsoever with her for 90 days and I am NOT gonna risk it. She could turn around and say I made a death threat or something psycho like that and I'd be DUN!!!! Does anyone know any nation wide lawyers that would be willing to do payments? Or even Casper WY Lawyers? I've called every family law lawyer in the phone book and they all are outrageous. As far as quit smoking right now, no way in hell am I even worried about that right now. I'm in the middle of the hardest WAR of my life and that is the last stress I need to worry about. All I know is I miss my boy and if I can't see him than there ain't no point in living anymore, REAL TALK.
That is exactly why I ain't lost it yet. But I will tell you this there isn't a force on this earth that can keep me from my son. I will put up with the laws and judges until they make it to where I can't see my son for an extended period of time. I'm not gonna lose it on 90 days but if the custody hearing determines she can have him and I can't have visitation, than just as fast as the verdict is read, I will strip the world's control of the situation and the law will no longer apply to me. I will die before my son is raised without his daddy. He is all I have and if they TRY to take him away then I will take him and bounce. My dad left my mom and went to Texas and I haven't seen him in 20 years. I'll be damned if I do that to MY boy. I know first hand how much it hurts not havin' a father to teach you how to be a man. I learned how I didn't want to be from my dad.
Ok first, let me say this. My wife is mentally ill and I WOULD NOT EVER, LAY A HAND ON MY WIFE!!!! See that is the difference between a boy and a man cuzzin'!!!!! She does not need to "Get stomped the fuck out" She needs some serious mental help!!! She gave me the most beautiful miracle in the world and am debted to her for it. No I am not saying that this situation was part of the deal but I married her and I vowed to love her til death do us part. Granted I would defend myself if my wife was assaulting me, but no way in hell would I "stomp her out." I would pin her down and call 911 and have her put in the looney bin if if she did that. But I Love my wife and miss her incredibly. So I say to you and anyone else who would beat there wife for any reason to question themselves like Satan questions Jehovah.
AFTER READING BIG E PROBLEMS I REMEMBER WHY I TYPED MY SIGNATURE... FUCK NO I DONT TRUST NO BITCH... BUT ALSO YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT TYPE OF WOMEN YOU ARE GOING TO MARRY... IF ANYTHING I'LL BE THE MADAFUCKER YOU SEE THATS BEEN GOING OUT WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND FOR 10 YEARS LIVING IN THE SAME HOUSE AND SHIT... BUT SINCE I'VE READ UNKUTS FIRST POST, WHAT IS THE MEANING BEHIND BEING MARRIED... ITS JUST SOME OTHER BULLSHIT THING THAT MAN MADE, ALONG WITH LAWS, AND MORALS AND OTHER SHIT...
I found her!!!! She never left Casper. I seen her at Walmart on the eastside hanging on her ex-husband. They both got the Evil Eye but I stayed away cuz of the protection order, but I trust my gut yall cuz the ish is obvious. I pray that he takes her back. I will get on my knees and beg him to take her back. I just want my boy, he's all I need. I shoulda seen this from a lightyear away. I feel like I betrayed myself for getting this close to a whore. I can't believe this ish is going on. I'm just gonna sit and chill and do what I do best. Make sick ass Beats. I have abandoned my bank account, it was -$1300 and the bank keeps paying the checks she writes and charging the $34 overdraft fees to the tune of another $700+ dollars and there ain't a way in hell I'm paying it.
so she gave your son life... okay, okay, fine... but at the same time, she basically kidnapped your son, took you for EVERYTHING in your bank account, and sicked the police on you... and on top of that, you just stated she was mentally ill.... now tell me what you think she could be capable of doing to your son under those mental conditions? and i didn't suggest you stomp out your wife. i suggested that women like that DESERVE to get stomped out, and i mean that from the bottom of my heart... and even then, that was before you stated she was mentally ill.
and i'm sorry homie, i don't really believe in divorces either, but you HAVE to draw the line somewhere for your own good... unless you want to end up in the looney bin your damn self... if things don't get better for her soon, you're going to have to choose between him or her.
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and i'm sorry homie, i don't really believe in divorces either, but you HAVE to draw the line somewhere for your own good... unless you want to end up in the looney bin your damn self... if things don't get better for her soon, you're going to have to choose between him or her.
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I have already chosen him. She is a lost cause. Even if she begged me to take her back, I would tell her to bounce and stay away from me. It just sucks cuz I can't get a lawyer to rep me pro bono and I called the wyoming bar association and they can't help me. She is still writing checks and Wells Fargo can't help me, I talked to child support enforcement about it and they can't help me, I went back to the same judge that ordered this crap and I have to wait until mon. to see if I get a hearing. The thing is, I'm only 23 years old, but I've worked every single day since I was 13, I've paid butt loads of taxes, and have contributed to this country for for 10 freakin' years and the longest job she has ever worked at is the one she just quit and she was only there a little over a year. Where the hell is MY help. I have always worked and paid taxes, where is the government when you need them? How the hell is she able to just up an quit her job, and get rewarded with Food Stamps, Title 19, Section 8, and Child Support? This is why so many woman end up raising kids by themselves. And they always want to blame the MAN for their psychosis. This world is ****ed up, and I'm on the brink of removing myself from it.
man. y'all pickin the wrong reasons and the wrong girl. there's a lot to be said for uppity bitches, ie they got their own money, life, job, ambition, purpose. my advice is wait to get married til you find a woman who don't need to lean on you financially, and hot damn-wait til you over 25 to make that decision. you just can't tell how folks is gonna turn out when they 18. life comes at you fast, but gettin married, sposed to be forever. if you gettin married just coz u scared ya girl gonna split, it's the wrong reason!
i see one thing wrong in that and it's getting a lawer that asks to pay upfront. i've heard of people getting ripped off that way by quack lawyers.
i don't know how far you've shopped around or asked around maybe you should keep shopping.
i don't have that much experience with them but maybe someone you know or someone they know does feel me?
I live in Casper, WY so there isn't much competition and they all are expensive as hell so basically I'm studying up in the wyoming law library to better rep myself. That's the only way I can do it. I've called the wyoming bar assoc. and they even said that without money I'm ****ed. So it's either do the best I can to rep myself and maybe have a chance, or give up and live the rest of my life on the run, cuz there is not anyway I will put up with Judicial Sodomy.
Dogg, I'm sittin here reading this....and I got a close homie who's a daddy in that situation...Lives w/ his girl but he's not supposed to right....And the kids aint gettin none of that attention...Its all fucked off....and I'm sorry to say that a lot of families work like this in our country.
Like I said, the best environment my ass.....Parents dont give a fuck more and more these days....And that's hard earned money coming out of our checks....It's already fuck the government but thats still money thats coming from us and paying for someone elses shit...
Well, I wrote a 3 page letter to the judge on Thursday of last week, requesting for an order to show cause, telling him about how my wife has been robbing the bank account of all money that came into it and left me broke and no way to buy food and pay rent. I also told him that I do not think it is fair that I also have to pay her child support when she steals my whole check and gets that on top of it. He approved it today and set it for the 19th. I'm also gonna try to get custody of my son then too because my brother seen them at the store and he had a huge bruise on his face and he asked her what happend and she said a dog bit him and that he was on anti biotics and shit. I've been doin' my own research about family law and I've come to the conclusion that this shit isn't near as hard as it looks. Even the judge said I'm doin' a hell of a job reppin' myself. I told him that I have no other choice, I have not a penny to my name. He told me that I do, I could just give up like every other husband/father does. I told him that it wasn't an option and he said I know, that's why I'm approving your request. Shit's starting to look on the bright for me guys!!!! It's about damn time, I've been on the hustle for 3 weeks now. I'm getting my phone turned on in my name and the internet so I will keep yall posted as to what happens on the 19th.