ok let me see if i got this right.... you have people at work talking about your family bizz and you want it to stop, and when people see your mom on the streets they just tell her about shit she already knows letting her know that they know the bizz. so all you got to do is let them know that your family bizz is personal and to who ever is spreading the bizz to stop or else you gonna have to see them at lunch time. oh and how do these people know your family bizz someone has got to be telling them that knows the family?