If you live in a Crip neighborhood you're gonna end up saying Cuz whether your a Crip or not cuz that's all you hear. It's the same with Nigga. Kid's are raised on the word but are expected to not say it?
I understand the logic behind what youre saying, but every person is different, experiences life differently, and reacts through their own personal perspective within a shared environment.
With that being said, I grew up in low income neighborhoods, went to the "black" school, and not ONCE did i say the word "nigga" like it was the thing to do. NEVER. I was raised properly.
And as you mention V-Nasty being called "nigga" by her own fuckin mother? Yeah, that's the problem right there. Mystery solved.
Mark my words. She is going to run her mouth to the wrong "nigga" outside the Bay, and get checked.
PS - Mistah FAB is a huge retarded faggot for that video. What a goddamn idiot.