Girl Problems...
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@ Shasta
When I said makin out I meant lots of kissin, foolin around, hangin all over eachother, no penetration. And I understand someone needs time to heal, but I don't understand how someone can have someone in front of them that they know would be good for them and they don't take advantage of it. I mean, I can understand it, if they still need time to think about shit, but like I said, she's been away from her ex for a while now. And she said that she was afraid she was gonna hurt me, and I didn't know how she could say that without giving it a shot first. But all I can do now is give her space like you said, but at the same time, I still want to be close with her, cuz I still have a great time when I'm with her, but I know it's gonna be hard to accomplish that after what's happened. And to tell you the truth, I really did believe that this girl was into me, but after what has happened, I'm starting to think that my analysis of the whole situation might have been off, even though I though for sure that the feelings were mutual.
@ Mr. Samos
I know it's just one girl, there's millions out there, but I just had a gut feeling that this was gonna work out and would be good for me. But I was obviously a little off. And you're right, we weren't together for long, it's not like we together for a long time and she decided to up and leave me. But I felt like this girl was someone who I actually could be with for a while, cuz she didn't annoy me like previous girls and she's fine as hell. I've just never had a girl that I had so much in common with and thought she was actually feelin me.
@ oakraiders9
You know what, that doesn't sound like a bad idea. I'ma go try that right now as a matter of fact, I'll let you know how it goes.
@ MOSA
That was my biggest mistake, letting her know how I really felt about the whole thing. And you're right, she knows she can have me whenever she wants, and she's right, lol. And even though I say I would like to stay close with her, you're right about just actin like I don't care. I'm not good at being an asshole, like I noted before, but maybe keeping my distance might make her want me back. These fuckin women and their spider-webs, always tryin to get a dude caught up in it.
When I said makin out I meant lots of kissin, foolin around, hangin all over eachother, no penetration. And I understand someone needs time to heal, but I don't understand how someone can have someone in front of them that they know would be good for them and they don't take advantage of it. I mean, I can understand it, if they still need time to think about shit, but like I said, she's been away from her ex for a while now. And she said that she was afraid she was gonna hurt me, and I didn't know how she could say that without giving it a shot first. But all I can do now is give her space like you said, but at the same time, I still want to be close with her, cuz I still have a great time when I'm with her, but I know it's gonna be hard to accomplish that after what's happened. And to tell you the truth, I really did believe that this girl was into me, but after what has happened, I'm starting to think that my analysis of the whole situation might have been off, even though I though for sure that the feelings were mutual.
@ Mr. Samos
I know it's just one girl, there's millions out there, but I just had a gut feeling that this was gonna work out and would be good for me. But I was obviously a little off. And you're right, we weren't together for long, it's not like we together for a long time and she decided to up and leave me. But I felt like this girl was someone who I actually could be with for a while, cuz she didn't annoy me like previous girls and she's fine as hell. I've just never had a girl that I had so much in common with and thought she was actually feelin me.
@ oakraiders9
You know what, that doesn't sound like a bad idea. I'ma go try that right now as a matter of fact, I'll let you know how it goes.
@ MOSA
That was my biggest mistake, letting her know how I really felt about the whole thing. And you're right, she knows she can have me whenever she wants, and she's right, lol. And even though I say I would like to stay close with her, you're right about just actin like I don't care. I'm not good at being an asshole, like I noted before, but maybe keeping my distance might make her want me back. These fuckin women and their spider-webs, always tryin to get a dude caught up in it.
Dude, its all a learning experiance. I can tell you from my own experiances, youre going to go through this two and three times more. Just remember to take mental notes youll soon have your own lil dosea of files on women. One will say this, and you can pretty much go, oh thats that chick. another will say something else, oh thats that girl. Youll soon be able to figure out the facts from the crap. I use to put women on pedistals, and one day im sure i will again, but right now, I just dont give a fuck. I got my own problems i have to fix (i.e: school;work;etc) Worrying about some dumbdame will just get in the way of that. Heres what I would do... If she wants to hang out, let her, but do it on your own terms. "No, you come over Im watching bernie mac, and bring a 6pack over." (or whatever you watch/drink) no need to be rude about it, but let her know youre all about yourself and everything else is just in the way. She can come along for the ride, or she can wait for the next bus. Just be yourself, dont bring it up anymore (atleast around her), she wants to talk about it, let her start up the conversation, and put you two cents in where you need to.
At the same time she dont own you nothing. you made out, big deal. Thats tight to say youve never felt like this before, but guess what another babe will come along and make you feel the same (but different, maybe even better. and when you know its legit, itll be offthahook). Bottom line is something happened on the break, and she just doesnt know what she wants. Also that whole thing about not wanting to hurt you, thats a defense mechanism to say she doesnt want to be hurt by you (just shes trying to be nice about it (funny how it never feels that way))
make any sense? probably not, but these things never do either way.
At the same time she dont own you nothing. you made out, big deal. Thats tight to say youve never felt like this before, but guess what another babe will come along and make you feel the same (but different, maybe even better. and when you know its legit, itll be offthahook). Bottom line is something happened on the break, and she just doesnt know what she wants. Also that whole thing about not wanting to hurt you, thats a defense mechanism to say she doesnt want to be hurt by you (just shes trying to be nice about it (funny how it never feels that way))
make any sense? probably not, but these things never do either way.
SHEA said:
fuck it.....rob her blind, take everything she got......sell it & buy yourself some pussy with the cashola. 
that'll teach her to toy with your heart.
that'll teach her to toy with your heart.
@ TIC TOCK- yeah lil girls and there games can be some shit...but there are REAL WOMAN in this world ..there is a diffrence... that can appreciate someone with characteristics like yours....keep your head up and don't let those lil girls ruin your vision.
p.s.-I will not take offense to your woman comment....because your right...SOME are like that but not all!!!!!!!
p.s.-I will not take offense to your woman comment....because your right...SOME are like that but not all!!!!!!!
Forget all the you shoulda done this, you should done that. It didn't happen, and it won't happen. You're not that type of person.
All you can do is be yourself. If a chick don't like it...oh well.
Yeah, it'll hurt for a while, but you'll get over it. Everyone does.
As you get older, you'll change...and you'll know better next time.
Just keep yourself busy for a bit.
All you can do is be yourself. If a chick don't like it...oh well.
Yeah, it'll hurt for a while, but you'll get over it. Everyone does.
As you get older, you'll change...and you'll know better next time.
Just keep yourself busy for a bit.
@ Cheaptimes
You speak the truth man, I know I'll probably go through this shit again. But there's no reason for the games these hoes play. I just hope I can find me one of those rare girls that don't like playin with a guy's heart. I mean, I thought this girl was something special, and I just got played. It's close to impossible to decipher one from the other like someone wrote earlier. And I don't know where shit's gonna go from here between me and her, I've seen her once since we had that talk. I just know I'm not gonna go out of my way to see her or talk to her anymore. If I see her I see her, even though I still wish shit was cool, cuz like I've mentioned before I have a great time when I'm with this girl, but shit might be weird though, I don't know. And I know it might seem like by her saying she doesn't want to hurt me, it really means she doesn't want to get hurt by me. But I pretty much flat out explained to her that I'm not gonna hurt her, just let shit play out how it plays out. But right now it doesn't look like it will get that far.
@ askG
I don't understand it either man. If you're into someone then you should let it be known and vice versa, and shit should be cool. But instead they make you go around this maze and sometimes there isn't a way out and you're fucked. I thought by me telling her how I felt it would atleast make her realize that I was a good man and I was gonna treat her the way she wanted to be treated. But it seems like she took my kindness for weakness if anything. And believe me, I've been smokin like a chimney all week, been smokin dank bud, hash, and opium. I'm smokin my sorrows away. Trying to forget the bullshit, cuz right now it's clouding my vision.
That's a great quote - "Cry a river, build a bridge, and get the fuck over it". Got that as my Messenger name, I love it. And that's pretty funny about not needin a boat if I got a bridge, you guys are fools, it's great.
@ MOSA
Like I said earlier, I hope I don't have to go through too much bullshit before I find one of these REAL WOMEN. I truly feel like I have a lot to offer almost any girl out there, and I ain't the best lookin guy in the world but I'm definitely not the ugliest. I get these good lookin girls attracted to me, but the shit never goes as far as I want it to. And this girl was so beautiful and fun to be around, that's why the shit hurts so much. But I'ma keep my head up, it's not like I'm gonna slit my wrists over this shit, it's just a bump in the road that I wish I would've swerved away from. But so it goes.
@ gimpypimp
That's why I was hoping to get at this girl, because I would've had something to look forward to every day. Now the one thing I have to look forward to is getting fucked up, dull my senses and feelings. Sad shit, but what can you do.
You speak the truth man, I know I'll probably go through this shit again. But there's no reason for the games these hoes play. I just hope I can find me one of those rare girls that don't like playin with a guy's heart. I mean, I thought this girl was something special, and I just got played. It's close to impossible to decipher one from the other like someone wrote earlier. And I don't know where shit's gonna go from here between me and her, I've seen her once since we had that talk. I just know I'm not gonna go out of my way to see her or talk to her anymore. If I see her I see her, even though I still wish shit was cool, cuz like I've mentioned before I have a great time when I'm with this girl, but shit might be weird though, I don't know. And I know it might seem like by her saying she doesn't want to hurt me, it really means she doesn't want to get hurt by me. But I pretty much flat out explained to her that I'm not gonna hurt her, just let shit play out how it plays out. But right now it doesn't look like it will get that far.
@ askG
I don't understand it either man. If you're into someone then you should let it be known and vice versa, and shit should be cool. But instead they make you go around this maze and sometimes there isn't a way out and you're fucked. I thought by me telling her how I felt it would atleast make her realize that I was a good man and I was gonna treat her the way she wanted to be treated. But it seems like she took my kindness for weakness if anything. And believe me, I've been smokin like a chimney all week, been smokin dank bud, hash, and opium. I'm smokin my sorrows away. Trying to forget the bullshit, cuz right now it's clouding my vision.
That's a great quote - "Cry a river, build a bridge, and get the fuck over it". Got that as my Messenger name, I love it. And that's pretty funny about not needin a boat if I got a bridge, you guys are fools, it's great.
@ MOSA
Like I said earlier, I hope I don't have to go through too much bullshit before I find one of these REAL WOMEN. I truly feel like I have a lot to offer almost any girl out there, and I ain't the best lookin guy in the world but I'm definitely not the ugliest. I get these good lookin girls attracted to me, but the shit never goes as far as I want it to. And this girl was so beautiful and fun to be around, that's why the shit hurts so much. But I'ma keep my head up, it's not like I'm gonna slit my wrists over this shit, it's just a bump in the road that I wish I would've swerved away from. But so it goes.
@ gimpypimp
That's why I was hoping to get at this girl, because I would've had something to look forward to every day. Now the one thing I have to look forward to is getting fucked up, dull my senses and feelings. Sad shit, but what can you do.
Pray. Ask God to give you something to look forward to man.
Another thing...if you really do feel her, its not a bad thing that you told her how you feel. You just cant keep repeating
it because it will make it easier for her to fuck with you. Once you get to the point where you've tried everything to get her back (you'll try everything even if we tell you not too) you'll
realize that time not only helps you learn more about yourself...but you'll know how you really feel about her. Dont be an asshole to her, that will give her a reason to
say "well I thought I liked him but what an asshole he turned out to be" or "I thought I knew him, guess not" shit like that will make it easier for her to forget about you but if you keep
it cool, she'll be like "damn why did do this to him, he never talked down to me"
Another thing...if you really do feel her, its not a bad thing that you told her how you feel. You just cant keep repeating
it because it will make it easier for her to fuck with you. Once you get to the point where you've tried everything to get her back (you'll try everything even if we tell you not too) you'll
realize that time not only helps you learn more about yourself...but you'll know how you really feel about her. Dont be an asshole to her, that will give her a reason to
say "well I thought I liked him but what an asshole he turned out to be" or "I thought I knew him, guess not" shit like that will make it easier for her to forget about you but if you keep
it cool, she'll be like "damn why did do this to him, he never talked down to me"
