it might for some but the whole idea is barbaric and cavemannish to me. we might as well be grunting and clubbing our bitches when we want to drag them back to the cave for some rutting.
Homie u must be knocking ur bitch up side the head every other night for every little bitty infraction.
And wtf is so barbaric & cavemannish about putting a strap to ur kids ass cuz they refuse to mind? It'll tell u in the bible to whup ur kids.
U must of been abused NOT disciplined as a child.
I hate whupping my kid so whenever she does something wrong I give her a chance by warning her & if that doesn't work I'll take a different avanue to discipline her w/o whupping her. Whupping her is the last resort but its never not an option.
And I agree with someone who said u gotta get a grasp on ur child early cuz that's what I did. I have a good kid but like I said earlier. No one is above an ass whupping.
A lot of people critisize Joe Jackson on how he disciplined the Jackson kids but white America dpnt understand that he didn't do nothing wrong. That's just how most black fathers whup ass. That's how my pops whupped ass when I was coming up.
I got a brother who has a gang of kids, gangbanged & two felony strikes but the tough love was there & my parents kicked his ass & showed him love in other ways but @ the end of the day he made his own dicisions. He looks back now & am grateful for those beatings & knows that he got'em for a reason. He's hard on his own kids now cuz he don't want them going down the same road as him.