Do You Whup Your Kid(s)?

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the big ass leather cinto used to hurt, and especially when the big ass metal bucket got into it. haha yeah ill hit my kids cuz i dont think i came out that bad hahaha
 

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how can you justify beating a child and then call someone on hitting their spouse. shouldnt the child get a pass? the adult should know better. what makes children a more acceptable target for violence than a woman? honestly.
 

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your logic is faulty as fuck. you should really think shit through before you get on your soapbox.
ok ive thought it through. you are enamored with me. you stalk me and my every post. ive come to the conclusion that you are a faggot. and you probably assault your kids too dont you. because you "love" them.
 
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my father got beat when he was a kid,and he swore to never hurt me physically.violence breeds violence,period.its not that my dad let me get away with shit,i respected him with full authority,he didnt have to use his hands or objects to get his point across about whats right or wrong.every single kid that i knew that lived in a even semi-abusive house hold had certain violent tendencies.starting fights,hitting younger smaller kids.you shouldnt have to hit your kid to teach him a lesson,thats being plain ignorant,avoiding the fact,were not animals,even though when were young we act like it sometimes.you dont need to raise a fist to instill fear and respect in one another,using violence is an easy escape route.jus my 2 cents.
now my mom on the other hand,thats a different story,but thats because i didnt look at her in the same light as i looked at my father,and she knew that,and it aggravated her.
i will never lower myself to inflict pain on my offspring simply to prove a point.it has nothing to do with fighting in general.but i believe we live in such a violent induced society because the way our younger generation has been raised.....better yet un-raised
I can respect with some of the stuff ur saying but its a difference between abuse & dicsipline homie. And whupping ur kids ass aint ignorant. Some children from my observation don't need ass kickings but a lot do. I think my pops over did it @ times when I was growing up but when I got older I understood why he was so strict in certain(not all) areas. I see too many kids with no respect & they talk to grown ups foul & the fucked up part about it is their parents let them get away with that shit.

I have a 5 year old & I don't whup her very much but when she gets too far out of pocket & had repeated warnings about getting out of line she will get belt checked. I have a good kid but aint nobody above an ass whupping.
 
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how can you justify beating a child and then call someone on hitting their spouse. shouldnt the child get a pass? the adult should know better. what makes children a more acceptable target for violence than a woman? honestly.
The "spouse" should have got taught how to behave by her parents, therefore a man should not put hands on her. You don't approach a woman you're dating the same way you approach your children, who you have to teach to be positive members of the community and society. The way you're comparing a spouse to children is not a good comparison and doesn't make much sense, enserio is correct...
 

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go to your local prison or county jail. im willing to bet that 90 percent or better were physically assaulted by a parent in the name of discipline. i bet you its not nearly that high if you go to a university. id guarantee it. physical punishment doesnt necessarily mean you are going to improve your child.

and evil genius saying white people need to start whippin their kids? really? is that because its helped the black community so well?
 
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i don't have any kids (keepin my fingers crossed) but the dude who lives in my complex tries to get his kid to fight his friends kid. they're both like 4 years old and he always yells "comeon you little niglet, don't let him hit you, hit that muthafucka back" and shit like that if the kids are playing rough.
shits a little wierd.
 

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The "spouse" should have got taught how to behave by her parents, therefore a man should not put hands on her. You don't approach a woman you're dating the same way you approach your children, who you have to teach to be positive members of the community and society. The way you're comparing a spouse to children is not a good comparison and doesn't make much sense, enserio is correct...
so you "teach" your kids with physical violence? nice. i was spanked as a child and still managed to be kicked out of school, spend 2 years of my life incarcerated, have 3 kids with 3 women, and so on and so on. spanking does not prevent your child from becoming problematic.
 
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go to your local prison or county jail. im willing to bet that 90 percent or better were physically assaulted by a parent in the name of discipline. i bet you its not nearly that high if you go to a university. id guarantee it. physical punishment doesnt necessarily mean you are going to improve your child.

and evil genius saying white people need to start whippin their kids? really? is that because its helped the black community so well?
Ok, enough is enough. You need to stop with these crazy comparisons of yours, you cannot compare apples and oranges Phil. Why would you only look at whether the prisoners got beat as children, why not look into levels of poverty? Why not look at the available resources in the communities those prisoners grew up in? Only looking at whether or not they were beaten doesn't mean much because there are so many other factors.

Please learn about fallacies Phil...
 
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so you "teach" your kids with physical violence? nice. i was spanked as a child and still managed to be kicked out of school, spend 2 years of my life incarcerated, have 3 kids with 3 women, and so on and so on. spanking does not prevent your child from becoming problematic.
Who's saying that spanking prevents your child from becoming problematic? Every human being is different, and every child reacts differently to forms of discipline. Some children need to get hit and need tough discipline, it helps them out later in life. Yet, some who do get tough discipline get ruined by it.

My advice is to not look at what others are doing or what was done to you or your father, look at your OWN child and learn about what makes him tick and how to motivate him to be a better person. Every child is different, so you cannot say that one way of discipline works over the other, it just depends on the child.
 
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so some kids are ok to be beaten and some not? and you want me to understand fallacies? bwahahahahaa!
What is so difficult to understand? Phil, it's too difficult to have an intelligent conversation with someone like you. If you want to debate on the things I said, then do it. But don't just take one little thing out of my argument and take it out of proportion and then just laugh. You make yourself look dumb on here. Have a blessed day.
 
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Im white/korean. I got my ass beat by both my parents when I fucked up. I will whip my kids if I have any when they get out of line.
 

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Who's saying that spanking prevents your child from becoming problematic?
then what the fuck is the purpose besides giving violent parents an outlet for their frustration?

i have no problems with my kids. none. im always complemented on how well behaved they are. i dont need physical abuse. maybe yall should take some parenting classes. they helped me out.
 

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i dont care if yall beat your kids. but dont look down on people who abuse their spouses. violence is violence. even in the name of discipline.
 
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violence is violence. slapping your child across the face is no different than slapping your bitch.
i dont think this thread is about sockin your kid in the face or kickin em in the stomach. growin up black/latino it was no strange thing to get hit when you did somethin bad...we talking getting spanked, or wacked with a sandal or a belt...or a clothes hanger. lol. too many kids these days are spoiled, and i got hit as a kid and im not sitting here slitting my wrists or crying about physical abuse. if anything we laugh about it at family get togethers...shit if my kid gets outta line imma whip em just the same!
 

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growin up black/latino it was no strange thing to get hit when you did somethin bad...
what a coincidence. growing up black/latino its no strange thing to be sitting in prison, or uneducated either. wow what a coincidence.
 

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just because you dont spank your kids doesnt mean they arent spoiled. how many spoiled kids do you see running around in the store and then get slapped around by their parent? now you have a spoiled brat who also sees violence as a means for punishment.