Where are you drawing this distinction??
What distinciton?
A man beats his wife in Florida...?
OK...that sucks and i dont STAND for beating your wife...but its doesnt CONCERN me. Not agreeing with something and CONCERNING yourself with it...not the same thing.
A stepmom locks her daughter in her room 23 hours a day....?
See above.
A guy rapes a girl in NY....?
See above the see above.
Surely none of those things affect YOU, but I would be suprised of you didn't give a shit about them?
Again, giving a shit is not the same as being concerned. I do not AGREE with those things, true, but they arent important enough for me to make a thread out of them or go on a smere campaign about it either.
There are also no bills to vote or propositons in place for any of the examples you mentioned. The point is, the government is making a fuckin HUGE GOODAMN deal out of this, and MAKING it a concern/issue. If the whole gay marriage thing just happened without all the press, do you think these folks would give a flying fuck? I doubt it. Just like everything else political, the government gives YOU a choice, which then leads to campaigning for a "yes" or "no", either "this man" or "that man"...and people pick sides and it becomes a whole thing. Just like with Obama and McCain. Why did people vote for either of these clowns? Becuase they are the choices
THEY GAVE US...we didnt "choose" anything.
My point is, is it really THAT big of a deal if two dudes get married? I mean...is it REALLY that big of a deal? How does this affect anyone if it happens? If the media and government did NOT make it an ISSUE...would you REALLY care? Would anyone REALLY be CONCERNED about it???