I know for a fact that Iraq is in good shape, my cousin said there was so little violence where he was they shipped him to afghanistan, and I've seen countless videos and read countless soldier journals. The taliban is non existent there, the Iraqi police/ military is doing a great job, and there is a democracy in order. People there are very grateful, the non jihad people
and i don't want to seem like i'm being patronising or sumthin, because that's corny and on some bougie shit and i ain't bougie, but i'm just guessing that your soldiers friends and relatives are talking from a perspective of, "no one is trying to kill us on the level of like how it was back in the early days of this occupation" type vibe, but i might be wrong, you would have a bigger picture of what they were telling you, you see what i'm saying
because the medical situation over there for the locals is horrendous, the literacy rate has gone totally down, theirs no real authentic rebuliding of the devasted infrastruture over there, its really not a real democracy if all parties don't get involved and rep everyone, not the sectarian voting lines thats goin on that was instigated by the system and when the US millitary leaves and i hope it dosen't go down this route, but a civil war might pop off over there, so it ain't all good or a bed of roses, no it ain't