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TRAJIK1

TRAJIK1

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at first i thought it would be cool ya know to have a lil' me runnin around and shit might actually help me get my shit together, but now i'm trippin, theres a big chance my lady might be pregnant and i told her not to take the test yet, but just in case she is, what are the things i need to focus on the most, and whats the easiest way to tell my folks, and her folks?
 
los-nssj408

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i went through the same shit bruh. we were still hella young though. 17/18. but jus find out for sure and be a man about your shit. good chance both sides of parents will be mad, but if you been with her a while it should help out a little. first you need to worry about expences. are you gonna have constant money rollin in. and if she is you need to sit down with her and take each set of parents (yours N hers) seperatly and tell them whats up N what you plan to do. if they know your gonna be responsible it will ease up the anger. her parents will be upset cause its thier little girl but it helps them knowin thier little girl N grandchild are gonna be taken care of! once you tell em seperatly then you all should get together cause most likely you are all gonna be part of each others lifes now. shits gonna be rough no doubt, like i said i been through this all. but once its all said N done N you hold your kid 4 the first time, you will see it will all be worth it. good luck bruh, jus be a man bout your shit cause no matter what always remember the kid didnt ask to be brought into this world so there is no reason to punish him or her!
 
los-nssj408

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damn that shit could go both ways wit her pops then. usually o.g's have respect cause they know whats up N they pretty much been through it all. but then again he could try to scare you. my ladies mom was a o.g type chick N she try to scare me wit threats N shit but once i stood up to her N let her know i was takin care of my shit N that she knew where to find me she chilled out. he most likely will jus talk to you like a man N jus wanna make sure you gonna take care of his little girl like i said. N prolly like my ladies mom he wont do shit cause deep down he is gonna want someone there to take care of his babies! but i dont know i aint met him, this is jus from experience. again good luck.
 
tha_psycho

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if u two are both happy thn whatever anyone else thinks wont matter haha, congrats if she is pregnant, i hve nevver had a kid but i think u should just sit your parents down and tell them, then do the same with her fam, when u find out if she is or not. and be a man and not like alot of dead beat dads take care of yours haha
 
TLALOC

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Time to grow up man! Responsibility for another human life (ur baby) is a BIG step in life! Everything i do, is for my family.......Never thought i'd make it this far in life and now im about to be a father again for the 4th time......A baby is a beautiful gift from God and im proud to say i have 3 with 1 on the way!
 
REdRUM

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First off, ROFL @
NastyNorth said:
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Great piece, TLALOC.

I'm not sure (and you may not be, either) if this is a relationship that will last, between you and your lady. But right now, you must begin to make the necessary changes in your life to welcome your ''little you'' into the world. There is nothing greater in the world than being a father, IMO. You suddenly are on the 'back burner', so to speak; it's not going to be about you, you, you.

My life revolves around my two boys, and I wake up every day and am thankful that I have them. I, like TLALOC, am happy to say that I am a father, and very PROUD of my family. I have two sons, with another (don't know the sex yet) on the way.

I wish you luck, either way, though. If she is expecting, great; enjoy your new life. If not...take a step back and decide if it could be a blessing. Don't let it be a surprise.
 
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