Anyone on here pay child support???
- Thread starter Little Daz
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Nah I ain't complaining. What I didn't mention is that my son lives with me half the week and the other half with her. He's 6 years old and he wants to live with the both of us, so that's how we worked it. All I'm saying is maybe I'm shelling out a lil bit more than I should be with all things considered.
One of my homies pays out $412/mo for his son... one of my girls get $290/mo for her son and another one gets $513 for 3 kids..
My son's father pays out $140/mo for my two boys... I split it between the two of them when I get it for them to take to the arcade or whatever... sometimes they treat me to lunch.
My son's father pays out $140/mo for my two boys... I split it between the two of them when I get it for them to take to the arcade or whatever... sometimes they treat me to lunch.
I'm not sure what the laws are in other states.. but in Idaho.. it depends on what both the parents make. The last time I went in for a review he wasnt even working, living at his mom's and still smoking.. they took what I made at the time and what he made at his last job (part time detailing cars) and issued a judgement for $140/mo and carrying them on his medical IF it was available at his next place of employment (guess what..? its NOT! shocking, I know..)
The man bitches and complains as often as I'll listen about how I'm just a money hungry bitch (he knows I dont need the money but I refuse to take him off) but yet just had another baby.. making it... ummmmm.. 6 kids total.
The man bitches and complains as often as I'll listen about how I'm just a money hungry bitch (he knows I dont need the money but I refuse to take him off) but yet just had another baby.. making it... ummmmm.. 6 kids total.
^well i take back the comment i made. i guess it depends if she needs the money and if it gets spent on the child. unfortunately the custody laws are in favor of mothers.
my coworker has full custody of his daughter and still has to pay his dead beat x for shild support.
i pay out about $450 a month and pay for what ever the young'n needs and i feel like i have a great deal. but i am not caught up in the courts.
my coworker has full custody of his daughter and still has to pay his dead beat x for shild support.
i pay out about $450 a month and pay for what ever the young'n needs and i feel like i have a great deal. but i am not caught up in the courts.
HELLL mutha fuckin naw!
i don't have no kids dont ever want. none
they to much scrilla...
and yeah...
dammm fuck naw..i aint ever havin no kids..
and therefore aint ever gonna pay no child support...
fuck that!!!
tha dam government steals enough of my money with taxes..,
i aint gonna get my money taxed by no lil kids....
i really hate kids after
watchin... "Are we There Yet"
wit Ice Cube...!
i don't have no kids dont ever want. none
they to much scrilla...
and yeah...
dammm fuck naw..i aint ever havin no kids..
and therefore aint ever gonna pay no child support...
fuck that!!!
tha dam government steals enough of my money with taxes..,
i aint gonna get my money taxed by no lil kids....
i really hate kids after
watchin... "Are we There Yet"
wit Ice Cube...!
any of you guys do your homework or what? yall are getting taxed. 200 is alot of money especially if you have the kid more then twice a month. do your research. when an order of support is entered through the division of child support they dont take into account the time spent with the child, they go by what you make. so you need to go through the court to get a residential credit. that will lower your child support because they have to take into account the time you spend with your child and if you have her for half the week then chances are you will have to pay little or nothing at all since you will have her about half the year. if you are having trouble and need help and you feel you are a good father do the following:
establish paternity. can usually be done at the prosecuting attorneys family support division. you will not have any rights to your child unless you do this. the birth certificate you signed dont mean nothing.
go to the court and put in for a parenting plan. if you are cool with your babys mom then you can fill it out together, if not the court will do it for you. and basically you will end up getting the kid every other weekend and every other holiday plus the summer and all school breaks. another thing to ask for is to be able to alternate claiming the child for tax credits. so every other year you will get to claim your child and the mom doesnt get it all the time. remember if you dont you will be missing out on 2500-3500 around tax time.
if you do this and neither of you are crack heads then you should be able to get it done without a lawyer. the judge might sign investigators to look into both of your pasts but that is normal if there is an issue between parents. but dont worry, these people are very good at thier jobs and they will make sure everything is fair.
stop being the victim! once you have a parenting plan in place your daughters mom can never mess with you again, if she prevents you from seeing your child she can be place in contempt of court and put in jail depending on how severe.
establish paternity. can usually be done at the prosecuting attorneys family support division. you will not have any rights to your child unless you do this. the birth certificate you signed dont mean nothing.
go to the court and put in for a parenting plan. if you are cool with your babys mom then you can fill it out together, if not the court will do it for you. and basically you will end up getting the kid every other weekend and every other holiday plus the summer and all school breaks. another thing to ask for is to be able to alternate claiming the child for tax credits. so every other year you will get to claim your child and the mom doesnt get it all the time. remember if you dont you will be missing out on 2500-3500 around tax time.
if you do this and neither of you are crack heads then you should be able to get it done without a lawyer. the judge might sign investigators to look into both of your pasts but that is normal if there is an issue between parents. but dont worry, these people are very good at thier jobs and they will make sure everything is fair.
stop being the victim! once you have a parenting plan in place your daughters mom can never mess with you again, if she prevents you from seeing your child she can be place in contempt of court and put in jail depending on how severe.