it wasnt my girlfriend that he fucked or anything like that......shit that's my point exactly, i wouldnt of cared if he fucked the bitch, cuz my feelings about that situation is like your's SHEA......Allow me to explain a little of what happened.....Homie like the bitch but she liked me.....He wanted to fuck her and i didnt care and he knew/know's this!!!! Girl wasnt anybody to me just some btich who would come over with some of her friends and party with us...Anyway i decided not to "hang out" a particular night cuz of my father going through his kidney thing. Next day homie all upset saying if you wanna fuck the bitch go ahead she like you....I said "cool" that night she came over to his house lookin for me but i was still dealing with my pops kidney issue (basically if he didnt get a transplant soon, he'd be dead) After that night everything changed.....he talkin shit "blah blah blah" about me (dont know what was said dont care) but what gets me is that he could of swooped her that night and fucked her, but she wanted me and he got upset (yet again) when i didnt show that night i guess he figured "if i cant have her he cant either" that shit right there was completely out of bound's for me! You dont talk down on a homie for anything unless it's deserving.......and it wasnt my pops and grandma were dying....
My frame of mind was and is..."if it's worth betraying a friendship over some bullshit than it's not worth my time to fix the friendship!!"
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i've also had a homie go out with my ex and have a few kids from her........Did i give a fuck "NO" Dude came to me and said "do you mind?" i said "NO....go for it homie"
End of story...