its hard to meet people who are real and have real intentions these days...I can say for myself i never have gone for a guy out of what they have but more of what conversation and friendship they can bring towards me. I get turned off by people who are too flashy and try and con me into kikn it...I like people who are more down to earth about things. And it seems like guys these days dont really want u to get to know who they really are nor really want u to be part of their life by including you in events with fam n friends..its more like they see the girl when they do and sepperate u from all of the people they know so they can be free to do whatever and be with how many ppl they wish...I guess the way i think closeness to be is a bit different then that. I would rather have a best friend in a guy if anything and hang out with that person and actually joke n do stuff but most guys want a girl who doesnt really wanna do shit n who calls them once n awhile n comes round once in awhile..funny usually these types are seeing several different ppl and thats why it boils down to once n awhile...i like having my own agenda and time for me n would want similar for the other person but would also want them to come out n tell me they miss me or wanna hang out..i dunno maybe 3 times a week is cool...but usually u get someone that is on a diff level of thinking then you so u jus keep moving.
