I agree. My moms mother was the mother from hell. A psychotic gangsta. I aint bullshittin.She Kicked ass(even when she was confined to a wheelchair right before she died), shot @ my cousins dad with a revolver, was a nanny but stole from the people she worked for and cracked the father in a head with a Tonka truck when they told her she was fired. Went to the pen twice. Once in the 60's and once in the 80's. I never seen her with a 9 to 5 but I seen her with a few hustles. Mistreated her kids when they were coming up and a host of other things that I'm not gonna mention.
BUT when she died in 1994 she got a proper burial and the family did'nt shit on her. Despite all of the shit she may had did and said we still loved her.
RIP Grandmama