Dad with badge confronts 14-year-old daughter's lover, 15
Irate officer tried 'to scare the boy straight,' lawyer says
By Sean Webby / MediaNews Group
Posted: 09/23/2010 01:01:01 AM PDT
A San Jose cop is being criminally investigated for handcuffing his stepdaughter's 15-year-old boyfriend and -- according to the boy's parents -- pretending to arrest him for having sex with the 14-year-old girl.
Prosecutors are probing to determine if the officer -- who showed up at the house on his motorcycle and in full uniform late last month --committed a criminal false imprisonment.
His lawyer says the veteran motorcycle officer, since placed on administrative leave, was simply trying to scare the boy straight.
But the boy's parents said they encountered an angry cop abusing his authority.
"He came over in full uniform and parked his motorcycle in front of our house; he didn't come over in jeans and shirt,'' said the boy's mother. "He didn't come over as a parent. He came over as somebody who had the authority to do whatever he wanted with us.''
The parents reported what happened to San Jose police internal affairs, and their son was later arrested for unlawful sexual intercourse.
District Attorney's Office spokeswoman Amy Cornell confirmed prosecutors are reviewing the case.
The conflict began Aug. 30, apparently soon after the officer learned that his teen-age daughter had sex with her boyfriend. The two had "dated" since middle school, giving each other gifts that made both sets of parents nervous and concerned, according to the boy's parents. Then the boy recently showed up at a house where the girl was baby-sitting. They became intimate that night.
When the father found out, he rode his motorcycle at the end of his shift straight from work to the boy's house, a few blocks from his own home, the boy's parents said.
When the officer knocked on the door, the boy's mother asked him why he was there. He said he had found their address after running a check on their license plate -- which, if true, could be illegal.
"I am going to arrest your son for sexual assault,'' the officer reportedly said.
When the boy got home soon afterward, the officer, according to the parents, began berating the teenager, telling him he had warned him to stay away from his daughter.
Then, he turned the boy around and placed handcuffs on him.
The parents said the officer told the boy that prosecutors would closely note that the girl was an officer's daughter and that the boy would end up a lifelong sex registrant.
Finally, the officer unlocked the handcuffs and brought the parents aside.
He was not going to arrest their son after all, he told them. He wanted to scare him. He handed them an arrest card that he suggested they put up on the refrigerator to make sure the boy didn't forget.
The officer's story, as recounted by his lawyer Terry Bowman, jibes with the parents' on some levels. But he says that he never pretended to arrest the young man. He said the parents told him their son was out of control.
"He is doing (the boy's parents) a favor by attempting to lecture and educate the young man so he doesn't continue to go down the wrong path,'' Bowman said. "This is two sets of parents navigating the challenges of raising teenaged children. The officer's goal was to help and engage in problem solving. Turning this into the blame game does not help the teens. In fact, it sets a poor example for taking personal responsibility.''
Bowman said the parents even thanked the officer after the encounter and shook his hand.
The parents said they could not recall doing that. The mother said she went to a parking lot at Walgreens and cried.
Police said that there is no written duty manual section that prohibits an officer from handling a case involving a family member or friend, but there is a city policy that employees must be impartial in their duties.
Police sources say it is not uncommon for officers to stop, search and even sometimes handcuff youths if the parents ask them to as part of a "scared straight" tactic. But this boy's parents say they gave no such permission.
Saturday, a San José detective called up the boy's mother and asked to interview him. She asked if she needed a lawyer and was told, she said, that it wasn't necessary.
After the interview, the boy was arrested and charged with unlawful sexual intercourse -- a misdemeanor citation for two minors of a similar age who have consensual sex. Sources told MediaNews Group that the officer's daughter was also cited.
The district attorney rarely prosecutes minors on such charges, generally rejecting cases that don't involve coercion.
Irate officer tried 'to scare the boy straight,' lawyer says
By Sean Webby / MediaNews Group
Posted: 09/23/2010 01:01:01 AM PDT
A San Jose cop is being criminally investigated for handcuffing his stepdaughter's 15-year-old boyfriend and -- according to the boy's parents -- pretending to arrest him for having sex with the 14-year-old girl.
Prosecutors are probing to determine if the officer -- who showed up at the house on his motorcycle and in full uniform late last month --committed a criminal false imprisonment.
His lawyer says the veteran motorcycle officer, since placed on administrative leave, was simply trying to scare the boy straight.
But the boy's parents said they encountered an angry cop abusing his authority.
"He came over in full uniform and parked his motorcycle in front of our house; he didn't come over in jeans and shirt,'' said the boy's mother. "He didn't come over as a parent. He came over as somebody who had the authority to do whatever he wanted with us.''
The parents reported what happened to San Jose police internal affairs, and their son was later arrested for unlawful sexual intercourse.
District Attorney's Office spokeswoman Amy Cornell confirmed prosecutors are reviewing the case.
The conflict began Aug. 30, apparently soon after the officer learned that his teen-age daughter had sex with her boyfriend. The two had "dated" since middle school, giving each other gifts that made both sets of parents nervous and concerned, according to the boy's parents. Then the boy recently showed up at a house where the girl was baby-sitting. They became intimate that night.
When the father found out, he rode his motorcycle at the end of his shift straight from work to the boy's house, a few blocks from his own home, the boy's parents said.
When the officer knocked on the door, the boy's mother asked him why he was there. He said he had found their address after running a check on their license plate -- which, if true, could be illegal.
"I am going to arrest your son for sexual assault,'' the officer reportedly said.
When the boy got home soon afterward, the officer, according to the parents, began berating the teenager, telling him he had warned him to stay away from his daughter.
Then, he turned the boy around and placed handcuffs on him.
The parents said the officer told the boy that prosecutors would closely note that the girl was an officer's daughter and that the boy would end up a lifelong sex registrant.
Finally, the officer unlocked the handcuffs and brought the parents aside.
He was not going to arrest their son after all, he told them. He wanted to scare him. He handed them an arrest card that he suggested they put up on the refrigerator to make sure the boy didn't forget.
The officer's story, as recounted by his lawyer Terry Bowman, jibes with the parents' on some levels. But he says that he never pretended to arrest the young man. He said the parents told him their son was out of control.
"He is doing (the boy's parents) a favor by attempting to lecture and educate the young man so he doesn't continue to go down the wrong path,'' Bowman said. "This is two sets of parents navigating the challenges of raising teenaged children. The officer's goal was to help and engage in problem solving. Turning this into the blame game does not help the teens. In fact, it sets a poor example for taking personal responsibility.''
Bowman said the parents even thanked the officer after the encounter and shook his hand.
The parents said they could not recall doing that. The mother said she went to a parking lot at Walgreens and cried.
Police said that there is no written duty manual section that prohibits an officer from handling a case involving a family member or friend, but there is a city policy that employees must be impartial in their duties.
Police sources say it is not uncommon for officers to stop, search and even sometimes handcuff youths if the parents ask them to as part of a "scared straight" tactic. But this boy's parents say they gave no such permission.
Saturday, a San José detective called up the boy's mother and asked to interview him. She asked if she needed a lawyer and was told, she said, that it wasn't necessary.
After the interview, the boy was arrested and charged with unlawful sexual intercourse -- a misdemeanor citation for two minors of a similar age who have consensual sex. Sources told MediaNews Group that the officer's daughter was also cited.
The district attorney rarely prosecutes minors on such charges, generally rejecting cases that don't involve coercion.
