Relationship Question.

[All 4 the Bay]

So I've been single for 6 years right? Im picky as fuck right? I met this girl through my friends 2 months ago. Me and her really click. So far so good. Ive been telling myself Im ready for a relationship if I find the right one. And this girl happens to be the right fit for me. However, I find it really hard to commit! ahhhh! Too many chicks to choose from. I just can't help myself right now. I'm back in the zone. So I guess i'mma keep doing what a bachelor man does and kicks it with coo ass beezies. I don't think I will settle down. Its way too hard for me. They coming at all angles!

Well I guess this isn't a question. Any input? Who else has been or is in this position?

 

[The Visualizer]

The best things in life come unexpected...

I found it hard to commit to the girl I'm with now, I wanted to still go out and get as many girls as I could and I didn't want to be tied down.

If you got something good... why throw it away?

 

[MzCiN]

ur a bad man lol jp.... hmm well im a female so maybe this might make no sense to u. but i thinkk when u really do LOVE the person ull be willing to settle down because u wont really wanna be with anyone else. so i think for now if u feel like u wanna keep lookin around cause theres some better bitches out there fuck it. do it dont committ cause if u do and u aint really willing u might just hurt the person. dont do that forever tho. cause i see alot of men that do that and by the time theyre in their late 30;s all the good females are taken then they bitch how they say they found the right one but didnt wanna c it. just date her frequently but be opened to other ppl. if she really is the right one for u itll grow on u when u realize other bitches dont make u feel the same as she do. and if u do date her and shes right for u sooner or later u wont wanna fuck around anymore cause u wont wanna lose her

 

[Lamberto Quintero]

If you commit to a girl, she will probably end up cheating on you.

 

[MzCiN]

If you commit to a girl, she will probably end up cheating on you.

lmao thats not true. hahaha jesus way to scare the guy huh. thats a lie im living proof. ive been with my man since i was 15. im now 20 and we been on and off couple times but when we been together i never ever cheated. we been married for 2 yrs now and its still the same. u a liar

 

[M BUTCHER 206]

If you commit to a girl, she will probably end up cheating on you.

definitely

dieing alone isnt so bad, fuck these bitches

 

[MzCiN]

lmfao u gonna die an old man with no one around but some stinky ass cats.

 

[All 4 the Bay]

If you commit to a girl, she will probably end up cheating on you.

Well thats what I'm also afraid of. Thats why ive been single for so damn long. My ex-gf cheated on me. I had so much trust in her and I was loyal. I wouldn't waste my time with her if I was going to hook up with other chicks. But she cheated and it crushed me.


@ MzCin - Thats what I'm actually doing now. I'm seeing her, she's my main who is also a good girl, but i'm also dating this other chick, which is my hyphy chick. My guard is up pretty high since my ex-gf. I've been telling myself that all women are the devil! The devil I tell you! The deception kills me! I can't trust any of them, but I'm starting to learn how to trust more females now. But its tough. I'm taking it slowly and hope it works out for me.

 

[Gas One]

lmao thats not true. hahaha jesus way to scare the guy huh. thats a lie im living proof. ive been with my man since i was 15. im now 20 and we been on and off couple times but when we been together i never ever cheated. we been married for 2 yrs now and its still the same. u a liar

the whole point of cheating is that no one would ever know, so whats the point of you saying you never did it?

like you cant lie to us too just for good measure

that shits like bieng in jail and sayin' you aint do it

 

[The Visualizer]

lmao thats not true. hahaha jesus way to scare the guy huh. thats a lie im living proof. ive been with my man since i was 15. im now 20 and we been on and off couple times but when we been together i never ever cheated. we been married for 2 yrs now and its still the same. u a liar

No offense but how many serious relationships have you been in before you met the guy you're with now? I know at the age of 15 it all goes like puppy love but if you haven't been with a few people it's hard to know what else is out there.

I don't mean to sound rude... but I tell that to my friend who's been with the same girl since middle school. He tries giving out material like he's a therapist.

It's good to know you're faithful, though :knockout:

 

[Lamberto Quintero]

lmfao u gonna die an old man with no one around but some stinky ass cats.

You're crazy bitch, I'll have women around me 'till the day that I die.

 

[Lamberto Quintero]

Well thats what I'm also afraid of. Thats why ive been single for so damn long. My ex-gf cheated on me. I had so much trust in her and I was loyal. I wouldn't waste my time with her if I was going to hook up with other chicks. But she cheated and it crushed me.

You just need to chill out and don't go too fast into a serious relationship. Believe me, if you have that worry in the back of your mind, it will become a reality...

 

[Gas One]

dont listen to a bunch of people who sit on a message board about relationships

thats just imo

 

[MzCiN]

lol i wouldnt lie. im just different i aint like the rest of the females. its just stupid why would u wanna date someone and have to sneak around to be with another person. just tell em u dont wanna be serious yet and u wanna see other ppl. big fucking deal. but yea i know wut ur saying i dont expect ppl to believe that when i tell them. but my point was. i love my man so why would i do that u know. so if him and that girl can have something good to reach some sort of commitment, i dont think its right to say " shes gonna cheat because ALL GIRLS CHEAT " ya know? im not saying she wont cheat either cause its a 50 50. u never know wut can happen like u said. but all women arent the devil theres still s ome good ones out there.

and to the thread poster i think thats good that ur taking it step by step. never let ur guard down tho. cause u never ever know wut anyone can do. but just because u had a fucked up situation before dont mean u have to miss out on a gf. just dont get into any type of relationship unless ur sure shes wut u want and that both of u are on the same page and ready to commit to one another.

 

[The Visualizer]

dont listen to a bunch of people who sit on a message board about relationships

thats just imo

Damn right....

 

[All 4 the Bay]

dont listen to a bunch of people who sit on a message board about relationships

thats just imo

Trust me pimpin I'm not. I'm just curious to know what everyones outlook on this type of a situation is. I'm still going to do me.

 

[MzCiN]

No offense but how many serious relationships have you been in before you met the guy you're with now? I know at the age of 15 it all goes like puppy love but if you haven't been with a few people it's hard to know what else is out there.

I don't mean to sound rude... but I tell that to my friend who's been with the same girl since middle school. He tries giving out material like he's a therapist.

It's good to know you're faithful, though :knockout:

i didnt say i was an expert either. lol im only 20 i know im young. and i see wut ur saying. but my point was that theres still good women out there. yet we all get called the devil lol. that was my point. jesus

 

[The Visualizer]

i didnt say i was an expert either. lol im only 20 i know im young. and i see wut ur saying. but my point was that theres still good women out there. yet we all get called the devil lol. that was my point. jesus

I wasn't calling you out... just reminded me of my friend. When someone's got a problem with a girl he bust out with situations and we have to take a step back and say you've only been with one girl? Most of the shit he does pull out of his ass, but most of the knowledge around relationships is just common sense... if people can't follow that then they're better off staying single.

 

[MzCiN]

its all good i feel u

 

[Southend_206]

SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE MY DUDE, TAKE YOUR TIME WITH IT, LET EVERYTHING PAN OUT LIKE ITS SUPPOSED TO. DONT RUSH NOTHING, IF YOUR HAVING A GOOD TIME WITH HER, AND YOU ENJOY BEING WITH HER, YOU SAY YOU TWO ARE CLICKING, THEN THAT SHOULD BE ENOUGH. THE JITTERS WILL EVENTUALLY GO AWAY, DONT LET YOUR GUARD DOWN SO EASY, BUT THAT DONT MEAN SHIELD YOURSELF FROM HER. WHAT ABOUT THIS HYPHY CHICK? MATTER OF FACT, ARE YOU OFFICIAL WITH ANYONE OF THESE LADIES?