I personally am Catholic. Now, there are some things in my religion I don't agree with, and some things I do. This happens to be one. The thing about marriage is, it's been around for quite a while, right? Before it was a legal institution, it was a religious institution. I'm pretty sure the United States made it a public issue, because we're good at that here.
Marriage, traditionally, is the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc.
My neighbors are gay, and they have benefits and all that good shit under a domestic partnership. They aren't out there trying to get married, why would they be? They have what they need.
OH, and ETHNOCENTRIC is the belief in the inherent superiority of one's own ethnic group or culture. I'm not ethnocentric, and this conversation has nothing to do with ethnicity or culture, it has to do with religion and law.
*edit*(i am putting a few definitions of ethnicity and ethnocentrism to clear this up for you)
Ethnicity:
http://racerelations.about.com/od/skillsbuildingresources/g/ethnicityrace.htm
ethnicity

a term which represents social groups with a shared history, sense of identity, geography and cultural roots which may occur despite racial difference
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ethnicity
: ethnic quality or affiliation <aspects of ethnicity> 2 : a particular ethnic affiliation or group <students of diverse ethnicities>
Ethnocentrism:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ethnocentrism
characterized by or based on the attitude that one's own group is superior
http://encarta.msn.com/dictionary_1861609294/ethnocentrism.html
conviction of own cultural superiority: a belief in or assumption of the superiority of the social or cultural group that a person belongs to ( disapproving )
sorry, you just keep arguing with just the wrong person.
I know my shit from top to bottom, i wrote an A paper in anthropology of RELIGION about Ethnocentrism, you are obviously ethnocentristic because you are upholding YOUR religions basis for a marriage. WHAT I WAS SAYING is that there are DIFFERENT people WITH DIFFERENT religions. Do you understand that?
So you are incorrect for saying that the law depends on the Christian Morals, because we are allowed to uphold any religious/cultural tradition, some of these traditions is to marry a man who dresses as a woman. If you actually studied cultures outside of your own, you would know this and stop arguing your flawed argument.
If you didn't understand, religion IS part of ethnicity.
Ethnicity is NOT the color of your skin it is the culture and group of people or ideals that you attach yourself to. I can be white and be part of the ethnic community of Muslims since I converted as a Muslim.
A legal union is bullshit, and is not equal. Why should people that DON'T agree with your morals must be forced to live under them, in the land of the Free?
I voted yes for the sake of our children & for organizations/church's rights to say gay marriage is wrong. By the way, homo's going from opposite sex to same sex is enough for me to believe it's a choice they made. It's a trauma thing like some1 said, so of course we aren't supposed to understand all the reasons why people turn gay.
lol LIKE I HAVE SAID BEFORE, you REALLY believe in your logic, that some child's parents being gay and legally married are going to traumatize the child to the same degree that children of divorces get traumatized?
what about parents that use drugs?
what about verbally abusive parents?
what about neglectful parents?
what about physically abusive parents?
should they not allowed to be married either?
They can sue all they want, but they will be wasting their time and money. A Catholic priest won't marry me unless I'm part of that specific church, even though I'm Catholic. My brother had to join the church he got married at, and do the whole counseling shit. So, if I can't sue any church for that, a gay person can't, either. It's at the discretion of the priest/pastor/whatever.
lol, THIS IS A RELIGIOUS INSTITUTION, NOT A LEGAL INSTITUTION!
MARRYING IN A CHURCH IS JUST THAT
YOU STILL HAVE TO GET A LEGAL DOCUMENT SAYING THAT YOU ARE MARRIED FOR IT TO BE OFFICIAL IN THE GOVERNMENT'S EYES.
I am getting islamically married, but not married under united states law for this simple reason.
Islamically marrying is valid for people that are Muslim and between me and my fiance, but IF I DIE, my HUSBAND would NOT BE LEGALLY responsible of my property.

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