I'd talk to my kids (which I won't ever have) about all that stuff. Parents today try to shelter their kids so that they don't know about anything so they can't make educated decisions.
I wouldn't have a problem if my kid got high or drunk or whatever, but it would be at my residence where I could make sure the fucker was chill.
My parents always told me not to do drugs etc, but they did when they were my age and younger (high school and college). I've talked to my mom and dad recently about that type of shit and they are honest with me now about what they've done and they both know pretty much what I've done...
I think the problem starts when parents set limitations on their children, rather than giving them vital information about the subject that could educate them into making a wise decision for themselves. Parents don't give kids enough credit...but also, parents HAVE to realize that kids are going to experiment with drugs and shit, at least, most of them...unless you convince them that some imaginary being is going to send them to hell for eternity, which is a crock of shit.
I hate parents that shelter their kids....tell the kids how life is, let them know your side, but also remember they are people too, and they are capable of making their own decisions if you give them a chance (and if they fuck up, let them know, and help them through their shit).
Maybe you should ask your po-po friends about alcohol being a drug (or the gov't, or anyone who's ADDICTED YOU FAGGOT). You've got to be the stupidest mother fucker on here. I hope someone mixes bleach with your next drink.