DONT YOU HATE WHEN FAMILY OR FRIENDS OWE YOU MONEY
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Luicky I have a really small family but my wife has a big family....she/we sort or learned the hard way not to lend people money. WHen friends ask me now, I just tell them no that I don't want money to come in between us.
I don't ask anyone for ends when I am hurting except for my mom but it has become REALLY rare these last few years. People borrowing money and forgetting or acting shady about it has made us not want anything to do with it (borrowing / lending)
I don't ask anyone for ends when I am hurting except for my mom but it has become REALLY rare these last few years. People borrowing money and forgetting or acting shady about it has made us not want anything to do with it (borrowing / lending)
Its kinda like that wether your borrowing money or fronting a bag to someone if u sold tree. Most people you front to will try to weasel their way out of it. This is what they think when they get the money to pay you back "I can either go pay this man back the 20 i owe him and not smoke or, just go get a bag from someone else". Its double fucked, you might not get paid back and you lose a customer.
Thats exactly how i feel. I dont like a debt hanging over my head. I get that shit squared quickly as possible and definitely dont play the dip and dodge game. Nothing burns my ass as when someone owes me 20 or more and they fuck around and go buy a new game or some shoes while they still owe me. I learned i dont borrow anyone shit but my family, shit, even my dad will try to find ways to weasel out of what he owes. My brother is good for it though.
I was going to bring up the Bronx Tale but that already got mentioned. Money you let people borrow is like going to the casino, you have to assume its not coming back, I dont really like lending out money, most likely if I do consider it a gift, and it also probably be very much. But I dont ask for money, I feel like shit when I have. Last time was I had to borrow $200 from my dad to get a car fixed, and I actually went out and hustled up the money before payday just so I wouldnt have it over my head.
man u said it on this one. that happened to me with friends so many times, but you know what thats one way to classify a FAKE ASS HOMIE. i learned so many lessons with lettin friends borrow money. but you know what it always comes down to you lookin out for the homie, and the homie takes it for granted or doesnt repay the favor. So in conclusion FUCK FRIENDS. friends always quick to smoke a joint or ask for something but when your the one who is on the other side, they act like they dont know you.
(turns on 2pac - fuck all yall)
(turns on 2pac - fuck all yall)
I got a hospital bill I'm slippin on getting paid. I owe my homeboy $60 dollars from a trip to Cedar Point like almost a year ago, lol. He hit me up and asked me for a ride a couple days back and I carted that fool around a good 70+. He offered me money and I just told him to take 20 off what I owed him from the trip from last year. I'll get you the other $40 once I can afford to hand it out. Right now I'm living basic as hell- food and bills is about all I can afford. He was like "damn, I forgot all about that shit. Good lookin', I wouldn't have even remembered". I spent about 12 bucks in gas to do all the driving, then there was like four hours of us going here and there, him picking up other money (dude was on some loan shark shit for a while, he's got some cousins that are straight Italian mob types). So I figure I actually put back a little more than I asked him to take off. Boy got all kinds of court shit going on and lost his license so this is maybe the 4th time he's hit me up needing a ride.
I fucking hate being in debt though. I've borrowed 20 bones here and there in the past to get me through until pay day, but I always pay it back as soon as its in my pocket.
Far as money and friends/family goes- that's almost never an issue. If they're your family/friends, money shouldn't matter at the end of the day. Unless you're hitting people with loans of $500 or more. My dude is selling commercial insurance in L.A., and he recently came back for a visit. I let him know I can't afford to be out every night, but he didn't care. Insisted I roll with him while he's in town. We hit the casinos and bars, a few house parties for 5 straight days. He spent a minimum of $400 each night. Two nights I know for sure he dropped at least a G.
He flew back to L.A. and never mentioned anything twice about money. He's getting plenty of it right now and told me before hand "don't even worry about paying me back for any of this shit. I'm just here to have fun". No doubt I'll be caked up in the near future, too many people have that expectation of me and there's not even an option to fall short of those expectations. The day I'm hittin' six figures a year, I won't be trippin over no bullshit borrowed money. I won't mind buying my friends tickets for the ride either, because its not about the value of the ticket- its about the value of the fun y'all are having while you take the ride. You can be stingy and ride by yourself, but shit isn't as much fun that way. Motherfuckers lose some valuable ties over money. There's been times I've loaned out money and never seen it again, there's been times I straight gave my people money when they were having hard times, or sometimes refused when somebody wanted to pay me back. I'll give it when I have it without any expectation of being paid back. There's been times people get me when I don't have it. Sort of like financial Karma.
Now if you're loaning out cash and its affecting your day to day by doing it, you shouldn't be loaning it out. Like a lot of people say though- don't expect to get it back.
I never get mad over money, because I always end up getting more. There's too much money floating around in this country to get your stress levels up over fifty or a hundred bucks. You can sit there bitching and worrying about what you lent out, or you can use that same energy to go out and get more.
I fucking hate being in debt though. I've borrowed 20 bones here and there in the past to get me through until pay day, but I always pay it back as soon as its in my pocket.
Far as money and friends/family goes- that's almost never an issue. If they're your family/friends, money shouldn't matter at the end of the day. Unless you're hitting people with loans of $500 or more. My dude is selling commercial insurance in L.A., and he recently came back for a visit. I let him know I can't afford to be out every night, but he didn't care. Insisted I roll with him while he's in town. We hit the casinos and bars, a few house parties for 5 straight days. He spent a minimum of $400 each night. Two nights I know for sure he dropped at least a G.
He flew back to L.A. and never mentioned anything twice about money. He's getting plenty of it right now and told me before hand "don't even worry about paying me back for any of this shit. I'm just here to have fun". No doubt I'll be caked up in the near future, too many people have that expectation of me and there's not even an option to fall short of those expectations. The day I'm hittin' six figures a year, I won't be trippin over no bullshit borrowed money. I won't mind buying my friends tickets for the ride either, because its not about the value of the ticket- its about the value of the fun y'all are having while you take the ride. You can be stingy and ride by yourself, but shit isn't as much fun that way. Motherfuckers lose some valuable ties over money. There's been times I've loaned out money and never seen it again, there's been times I straight gave my people money when they were having hard times, or sometimes refused when somebody wanted to pay me back. I'll give it when I have it without any expectation of being paid back. There's been times people get me when I don't have it. Sort of like financial Karma.
Now if you're loaning out cash and its affecting your day to day by doing it, you shouldn't be loaning it out. Like a lot of people say though- don't expect to get it back.
I never get mad over money, because I always end up getting more. There's too much money floating around in this country to get your stress levels up over fifty or a hundred bucks. You can sit there bitching and worrying about what you lent out, or you can use that same energy to go out and get more.
for sure bro. her daughter is with the ex husbands parents. kind weird people but a good home n her son jus got moved to EG to live with his dad. her hubby split so now shes by herself n gotta turn herself in for community service or 13 days house arrest plus rehad. Oxy's n meth will fuck your whole life up in months!!
i lost a close friend over this shit a few years ago. dude moved to cali and fell on hard times, called me one night and asked for some money and im like shit its nothin to me fuck it, sent a check for 500 the next day. 2 years later and dude really didnt make it a priority to pay me so I basically told him next time I see you im fuckin you up if you dont have a payment for me. he ended up payin me a 40 dollar payment, and a 20 dollar payment, then disappeared until him and his bitch walked into a bar i was at one night, saw me at the bar, then ran back out the door like forest gump, all scared and shit. made me recognize that dude is basically a bitch and made me realize that you never lend friends or family members money unless you dont expect it back. it aint even really about the money to me cuz i dont really need it that bad but its the principle. theres principalities in this!
u fuckin wit my money you fuckin wit my emotions
u fuckin wit my money you fuckin wit my emotions
Helpin 2 'friends', who are bros, jus to help em out. $500. Been a year, but they both point the finger on each other sayin he'll pay me. Dont have a job, not trippin cause I dont want know bullshit like this come between us then those awkward moments everytime they see me, like now.
Samething. I rather have it as a surprise WHEN I get it.
Samething. I rather have it as a surprise WHEN I get it.
