Well, that sucks. :hurt: I made a mistake.
Yet your Jew research still backs me up. 'Dead' or 'Not in Use'...however you choose to describe it, the language was not in active use by the common man in everyday situations. The Jewish White Man was able to revive this language, and now they use it in such a way. I am proposing Black people take a language that is
alive and well, and that is beyond question alive and well, and adopt it as our own.
The point is not lost, although, the extra credit was. I will search more thoroughly next time. I remember searching Pages 2 and 3, but not 1. That is where i made the error.
HERESY said:
I am NOT going to read all of that.
I'm flabbergasted. I had no idea. Who'd have thought that after artificially inflating this conversation to 30K+ characters, you would suddenly bitch out and leave, like you usually do.
You exhibit traits of being passive agressive. Everything in bold apllies to you.
I enjoy this. Let us see what applies and what doesn't. For the ones that do not apply, I will try my best to show how they are your own projections and insecurities.
FYI I am INTJ and OCPD, the latter of course being self-diagnosed.
*FEAR OF DEPENDENCY - Unsure of his autonomy & afraid of being alone, he fights his dependency needs - usually by trying to control you.
I enjoy being alone. I am not sure why you say this, when it is YOU that said: "You are wasting EVERYONES time AND wasting bandwidth", and even:
Talk about a lack of autonomy. You are someone who cannot function here without the help and backing of others. You constantly call out to them to help you.
*FEAR OF INTIMACY - Guarded & often mistrusful, he is reluctant to show his emotional fragility. He's often out of touch with his feelings, reflexively denying feelings he thinks will "trap" or reveal him, like love. He picks fights to create distance.
This is very close, but you fall off at the end. I do not pick fights--I employ sarcasm and joke excessively. Being raised with a single parent, my emotions are turned inwards. That much is not hard to figure out.
I don't get to act like a trust fund baby and go persue any woman and relationship I please. I have goals and plans that need to be put into action, and while that is happening, I will take what I can get. And have.
*FEAR OF COMPETITION - Feeling inadequate, he is unable to compete with other men in work and love. He may operate either as a self-sabotaging wimp with a pattern of failure, or he'll be the tyrant, setting himself up as unassailable and perfect, needing to eliminate any threat to his power.
...I'm not even sure how that makes any sense. I style myself as unassailable because this is the Internet. That is the pinnacle of competition: challenging other people, by any means necessary, to step up their game and deliver you a challenge.
Competing is one thing. Already being at the top is another. I know people like you struggle and have to put in MASSIVE amounts of time to be good at things like College or Music, but for people like me, these things come to me with relative ease. I am lazy and a natural competitor; you are talentless and hard-working. I will take my position over yours any day of the week.
*OBSTRUCTIONISM - Just tell a p/a man what you want, no matter how small, and he may promise to get it for you. But he won't say when, and he"ll do it deliberately slowly just to frustrate you. Maybe he won't comply at all. He blocks any real progress he sees to your getting your way.
This, coming from the man who has asked the same question a good 20 times, and refuses to either move on to something else, or answer the question himself and ask the question, "Am I correct here, or did i get something wrong?"
You are not someone who cares about progress. You are someone who likes to argue and obstruct. This is you on this one. You have proven this by refusing to provide yuor own idea to reduce Black on Black Violence, and instead, viciously and around-the-clock, doing nothing but attacking and obstructing my own theory.
*FOSTERING CHAOS - The p/a man prefers to leave the puzzle incomplete, the job undone.
Very true. I hate completing jobs by myself. I like other people to finish them for me, once I have already set the solid groundwork. I have never been a closer, but I will give you a solid 6-7 innings, every time out.
*FEELING VICTIMIZED - The p/a man protests that others unfairly accuse him rather than owning up to his own misdeeds. To remain above reporach, he sets himself up as the apparently hapless, innocent victim of your excessive demands and tirades.
Not even sure how to answer this one. I answer questions and demands that deserve to be responded to. Tirades make no nevermind to me, as long as they are accompanied by rational thoughts and
original ideas. If you have no ideas, either for how to fix my theory or to put forward your own theory, you have no business questioning me more than a time or two, here and there.
*MAKING EXCUSES & LYING - The p/a man reaches as far as he can to fabricate excuses for not fulfilling promises. As a way of withholding information, affirmation or love - to have power over you - the p/a man may choose to make up a story rather than give you a straight answer.
Completely false on this one. I am capable of making mistakes just like any other man. But when I don't make mistakes, it is usually soft-shelled and sensitive people like you who demand that I admit to them anyways, just on GP. This I give no ground on.
When I am unequivocally wrong, I usually look at the larger picture. Once I get over the initial personal shock of being wrong (as in saying i didn't say "Complete Dead" when i verily did), I realize that the great majority of what I said is still correct. I also realize that the other person is cherry-picking and generally avoiding the conversation.
ESPECIALLY funny, is when someone says, "I am NOT going to read all of that.", and then proceeds to call me out on a mistake that occurred DEEP WITHIN the 4 posts of what i said,
something he could not have seen without in fact having read through everything.
We all make mistakes. This is true. But when you are a straight arrow like me, they matter little. Most are slight oversights--not momentum-changing errors. There is no need to "lie" about that.
*PROCRASTINATION - The p/a man has an odd sense of time - he believes that deadlines don't exist for him.
This is about 75% true. The deadlines do exist and I do most things last minute, but I am also somebody who rarely (if ever) asks and makes a case for an extention. Procrastination and Integrity are not opposite in nature.
*CHRONIC LATENESS & FORGETFULNESS - One of the most infuriating & inconsiderate of all p/a traits is his inability to arrive on time. By keeping you waiting, he sets the ground rules of the relationship. And his selective forgetting - used only when he wants to avoid an obligation.
Not even close. I am someone that is known for being on time, esp. if you are talking about simply BEING SOMEWHERE. If I don't show up to something on time, 99% of the time, you can just assume I will not be there.
Forgetfulness.....extremely rare. I know most of what I say, and have a great knowledge of what other people have said, and I have proven this time and again on these forums. Do not confuse Forgetfulness with Flakeyness. I am extremely Flakey. But I do not forget easily.
*AMBIGUITY - He is master of mixed messages and sitting on fences. When he tells you something, you may still walk away wondering if he actually said yes or no.
Not too far off. I am a master at hovering around the 60/40 mark. But when i want to make myself known, you will have no problems witnessing a 99/1. My intensity is entrancing. I have verily silenced people by going 99/1, after having been pushed into it.
*SULKING - Feeling put upon when he is unable to live up to his promises or obligations, the p/a man retreats from pressures around him and sulks, pouts and withdraws.
Again...not accurate. I don't need to sulk--I am a college student. I have shit easy right now. If i don't feel like going to school one day, I don't even have to make a phone call or send an email. I just don't show up.
I have already explained how I am a masterful test taker. Why you would even try this "Sulking" thing, as if i would run away from tests, is crazy-talk to me.