since i fall into the pagan category,
I have no problems celebrating christmas, valentines day, etc... as long as its really something to be thankful for or to be happy about, then i say live it up... its a shame that the meticulous nit picking of symbols and meanings will cloud the joyous occasion that presents itself... maybe im blessed not being raised religious... i dont think i have the stamina to be so concerned about the salvation of my soul if i put a star on top of a tree sitting in my living room.