Unmarried With A Gang Of Kids

[The Evil Genius]

I got a potna who who's been with his bitch about 7-8 years. She had 4 kids already & he had 2. They got one kid together. 7 damn kids like a ghetto Brady Bunch. The thing that trips me out is they aint married after all these years.

Now I aint saying he gotta marry the bitch but he not even feeling marraige & she is. What's the point of having this ghetto version of Step By Step & being with each other for all these years & just not completing what u started? I see couples like this every so often too. A mothafucka will be with a female for 12 years & have 3 kids & not even be married but will show up to church every sunday claiming to be Christains.

I just don't get it.

 

[Jae iLL]

when do you get that common law marriage or whatever? I think my granddad had that shit, he was wit some lady for hella years and they was like "common law" married without ever gettin married or some shit like that.

 

[Defy]

common law is after 10 years

maybe he doesn't realize the financial benefits of being married, most people think that its just religious or someshit like that, marriage is hella economical and cost effective. well, the ceremony might take some cash, but thats about it

 

[antoniog831]

if your getting the milk for free, why buy the cow????

 

[Defy]

because once you buy the cow you get tax breaks & incentives

 

[antoniog831]

and you also get other niggas kids and their dentist, doctors bills...

 

[MRTHECOSE]

why get the GOV involved if imma be wit a chick its cuz i want to. no paper is gonna stop me from fuckin sum broad or validate my love for my baby mama. i married my wife cuz she was big on marriage and to her it meant something.. like i said i could care less about a n official GOV paper saying we are under a contract. fuck that. but tax breaks are nice yessir

 

[The Evil Genius]

if your getting the milk for free, why buy the cow????

The milk aint free. He been helping her take care of all of them bad ass kids all these years.

 

[Chree]

lol i almost got stuck with this female who had 3 kids by diff daddies and she kept trynna get me to go raw, and i was like fuck no, 22 with 3 kids diff daddies, shit..

 

[martin_07n]

lol i almost got stuck with this female who had 3 kids by diff daddies and she kept trynna get me to go raw, and i was like fuck no, 22 with 3 kids diff daddies, shit..

you know she 'bout ready to have your kid too. :cheeky:

 

[Chree]

you know she 'bout ready to have your kid too. :cheeky:

lol she was though, it was all bad fuck that

 

[Tony]

It's better that he doesn't marry her if he doesn't think he should. My cousin is like that and he's not marrying her or planning to. Too much legal obligations...fools be getting trapped. I love my sons mom but I am not marrying her. If I ever decide to bounce I can do so without having to go through a nasty divorce and have to put up with courts and all of that.

 

[SRD420]

Yeah seriously, of all my friends including myself, everyone of their parents are divorced. I don't know anyone with parents that are still together... marriages that actually lasted 40 plus years are like a thing of the past. I dunno, but seein' what my old man went through w/ his divorce made me really think about marriage and I don't really think I'll ever get married. Maybe... but I don't think so.

 

[BaSICCally]

Age at marriage for those who divorce in America
Age Women Men
Under 20 years old 27.6% 11.7%
20 to 24 years old 36.6% 38.8%
25 to 29 years old 16.4% 22.3%
30 to 34 years old 8.5% 11.6%
35 to 39 years old 5.1% 6.5%

 

[FreedomLost]

Interesting numbers

I've known of people to get married in a church with a pastor/priest, but not register it with the government. Different strokes for different folks.

 

[The Evil Genius]

It's better that he doesn't marry her if he doesn't think he should. My cousin is like that and he's not marrying her or planning to. Too much legal obligations...fools be getting trapped. I love my sons mom but I am not marrying her. If I ever decide to bounce I can do so without having to go through a nasty divorce and have to put up with courts and all of that.

I've been married & a divorce is not such a stressful thing UNLESS u got assetts & property to devide up. That's when it really gets ugly. The only problem I had was child support & child custody. That shit was a two year process cuz we were battling back in forth. All she wanted was child support. It was all about her getting paid. She got it to. My only flaw is that I wasn't stable half the time. When u got stability ur all good as far as support & custady.

I was fucking with this bitch who was 24 with 4 damn kids. She wanted me to go raw. I was like "hell gotdamn no". She wanted me to be her man & I was like "no". She said "why not". I said "cuz u got 4 fuckin kids". She was hella mad. My friends thought that was mean of me to say but I didn't give a fuck. I just kept shit real.
She wanted 2 go out but wouldn't pay. I told the bitch she gotta pay since she asked me out & she said she don't pay for dates. Any bitch that aint a dime with 4 kids driving a raggedy ass mini van shouldn't have anykind of hang ups when it comes to dating.

My girl now has one kid & her daughter is grown & out the house so I'm all good.

 

[bayflip]

domestic partnership

 

[Tony]

I've been married & a divorce is not such a stressful thing UNLESS u got assetts & property to devide up. That's when it really gets ugly. The only problem I had was child support & child custody. That shit was a two year process cuz we were battling back in forth. All she wanted was child support. It was all about her getting paid. She got it to. My only flaw is that I wasn't stable half the time. When u got stability ur all good as far as support & custady.

I was fucking with this bitch who was 24 with 4 damn kids. She wanted me to go raw. I was like "hell gotdamn no". She wanted me to be her man & I was like "no". She said "why not". I said "cuz u got 4 fuckin kids". She was hella mad. My friends thought that was mean of me to say but I didn't give a fuck. I just kept shit real.
She wanted 2 go out but wouldn't pay. I told the bitch she gotta pay since she asked me out & she said she don't pay for dates. Any bitch that aint a dime with 4 kids driving a raggedy ass mini van shouldn't have anykind of hang ups when it comes to dating.

My girl now has one kid & her daughter is grown & out the house so I'm all good.

I went through that too.... only thing I went raw dog. She had hella kids already but I was young and dumb. She had a miscarriage and I stopped messing with her after that happened. I guess you could say I lucked out or God probably was looking out for me. I don't know if it would have been mines anyway because when I started messing with her, her stomach was poking out some.

 

[The Prince]

2 WORDS, FUCK KIDS - DONT WANT THEM.

I dont date girls with kids, thats a waste of time. I dont like kids, most of them are bad and at work I throw food at most of them hahaha little bastards.

 

[Calm 1 NPK 503]

One my bro's been with the same woman since he was like 16-17 and he now like 28 and they have 6 kids and they not married.