IF a man kisses another man on the mouth ( for any reason) is he gay?

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IF a man kisses another man on the mouth ( for any reason) is he gay?


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May 10, 2002
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#41
Ok ... so let me rephrase:

Why would one consider a man kissing another man in the mouth gay, but not male athletes slapping each other on the ass? Where's the threshold?
 

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MrPeete said:
What about male athletes (and coaches, assistant coaches, trainers, towel boys, etc...) who slap each other on the ass? Are they gay too?
all situations arent the same, as i mentioned in your sig..

but for the sake of convo,

in my eyes, yes, that shit is possibly gay, and thats why i have never fully felt comfortable in locker rooms and showers in sports. our coaches had a big glass wall where they stared at children getting dressed and taking showers. that type of thing is just fucking weird to me.

catholic preaachers, teachers end up child molestors why, because theyre with children/teens all the time and build some sort of relationship.

i was watching this game right, this cat made a play and 5-6 guys patted his ass at the same time after the play. i mean, hands over hands. i found it fucking hilarious that that many men were thinking about his ass, at that particular moment.

its not that its a 100 percent cue to homosexuality, its that its actions fall underneath that category.

single adults with no children that hang around playgrounds and kindegardens to me are possible sexual predators, im not saying every person who does it is...but its a hint to behavior.

and even if you are wrong, you kill two birds with one stone.
 

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yeah real shit, and i was a lazy pothead so i didnt do much during PE, but i used to always look up at the glass like...man yall have some issues to be starin at hella kids

the exscuse was so they could make sure the kids werent fighting or doing/selling drugs or what not, i guess its better than walking around the boys changing rooms, but yeah....any man who wants to look at that shit is just fucked in the head to me

it would make more sense if you didnt like drink coffee and watch it like its the news, yknow

maybe come by the window every 3-5 min or somethin

i guess the females had a window too but only female coaches were allowed. or atleast i think?? im sure there woulda been some ill complaints on that one.
 
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iaoish said:
In some cultures this is not more or less then normal



Agreed...

..y'all are seriously takin' this topic too far... if the kiss is open mouth and passionate-- then its probably two Gay men-- but why are all you fellas wrapped up in the business of two OTHER men kissing.. if it aint you-- why you trippin'............ curiosity perhaps..?
 
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KALYN said:
Agreed...

..y'all are seriously takin' this topic too far... if the kiss is open mouth and passionate-- then its probably two Gay men-- but why are all you fellas wrapped up in the business of two OTHER men kissing.. if it aint you-- why you trippin'............ curiosity perhaps..?
Why is it a problem to discuss this topic? You made a thread about another woman tits....why was that cool for discussion but this not.
 

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and on the flipside, are you homophobic if you move away from your partners and coach when they try to slap and grab on your ass?

i mean i wouldnt even want to 'play' if i knew me getting good yardage was going to equate in ass grabbing

i dont even think you can grab ass at strip clubs.

and wasnt that basically, the point of co-ed flag football?
legal rape?

ever see the dude that was just too happy to tackle mutha fuckas? and he always liked tupac.

i liked karate out of all sports, because i was allowed to beat up white kids.
 
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Gas One said:
and on the flipside, are you homophobic if you move away from your partners and coach when they try to slap and grab on your ass?
That's assuming that the slappee has some reason to believe that the coach and teammates want to slap his ass for reasons other than those that are celebratory. Slapping and grabbing are 2 different things, lol.

It becomes problematic when you (not you in particular Gas) start to equate any contact between two men (that isn't fighting or hand shaking) gay.
 

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#50
and i guess it also depends on the tolerence,or not..on the persons behalf, too. yeah, personally its not my job to judge.

I was in San Francisco and i saw two men holding hands, i wrote that off as gay.

Its kind of the whole "if youre walking around a seedy area in high heels with your tits and ass out, youll be looked at as a hooker" deal.

i would fight someone over bieng pinched on st. pattys. i guess some people dont mind bieng physical, play wrestling and so on.

lil wayne and baby obviously decided that since they arent gay, they can kiss.
....whatever, i guess.

youre right on that though, i guess you deal with that on a individual basis. peace to a slap on the shoulders or a hit on the helmet or something though.
 
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Gas One said:
i would fight someone over bieng pinched on st. pattys. i guess some people dont mind bieng physical, play wrestling and so on.
That's a whole other thread, lol...

I don't give a fuck if you're gay, straight, bi-sexual, try-sexual, asexual, etc...

If I don't know you, DON'T TOUCH ME. You have no right to invade my personal space, regardless of the occasion, lol
 
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In America and many countries influenced by the American lifestyle, it is considered gay, while in other countries it's a common thing to do to show courtesy. In ancient times when would kiss each other on the cheek and even the lips. Modern times would say YES, I WOULD ALSO SAY YES! It's too homo!
 

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#53
yeah, thats how i am, and i feel the same about the ass patting thing. but then again, yknow..i don't play football...so its not my ass bieng patted...why care..

if that motivates them to get extra yards on the next play, good for them i guess.

and the kissing on the cheek thing, i mean if its cultural to me its whatever.but you shouldnt force your culture on other cultures.

if i was in japan i wouldnt just grab someones hand id bow
cuz i know thats accepted custom there

thats another example of bieng physical thats accepted and not accepted
 
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Really Treal said:
Why is it a problem to discuss this topic? You made a thread about another woman tits....why was that cool for discussion but this not.



I'm not saying its a problem.. I'm stating my OPINION- public thread = opinions .. If I want to make a thread about another woman's tits- cut or uncut peener- tampons vs. pads--- I will........ I'm very comfortable re: my sexuality as well as my sexual orientation.... I dont know that that can be said for some of the the posters in this thread..
 
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KALYN said:
I'm not saying its a problem.. I'm stating my OPINION- public thread = opinions .. If I want to make a thread about another woman's tits- cut or uncut peener- tampons vs. pads--- I will........ I'm very comfortable re: my sexuality as well as my sexual orientation.... I dont know that that can be said for some of the the posters in this thread..
can u please explain how this thread is going too far. yea, if u want to make threads about any topic, you can. This is a message board you are supposed to right? I am very comfortable with my sexuality, that's why i made this thread because i wanted to see how people felt.
 
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Really Treal said:
without a doubt. i made this thread because i said borat was gay because he kissed will ferrell at the mtv movie awards I just wanted to see what the results would be because these 2 guys think it's acceptable.



^^^ This dude sounds a lil suspect...
Will Smith must be a fag too...Nigga played a gay roll in a movie once and had kissing scenes.
 
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#60
If you can't see the difference between gay men kissing out of affection and two comedians playing off of that taboo for a laugh then you are naive and probably uptight in your manhood.