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just because tupacs mom smoked crack dosent mean that tupac smoked crack too..you know?
i honestly made the decision for myself when i wanted to take up smoking regularly..and it was after i smoked w/ my dad, i really didnt smoke regularly until 17, when i could have at 14...
didnt become a big drinker until i went away to college...
id think my kid would be pretty wise and would be able to form his or her own intelligent opinion about whatever subject...
as far as 'letting them'...thats under my discretion...i wouldnt allow a teenage drunk to fuck up scholorships and grade averages or a teenage pothead with no goals or motivation....when they can get a job, thats when i have no say...but as long as they buy drugs with my money...shit its up to me...
i honestly made the decision for myself when i wanted to take up smoking regularly..and it was after i smoked w/ my dad, i really didnt smoke regularly until 17, when i could have at 14...
didnt become a big drinker until i went away to college...
id think my kid would be pretty wise and would be able to form his or her own intelligent opinion about whatever subject...
as far as 'letting them'...thats under my discretion...i wouldnt allow a teenage drunk to fuck up scholorships and grade averages or a teenage pothead with no goals or motivation....when they can get a job, thats when i have no say...but as long as they buy drugs with my money...shit its up to me...
hell no...i keepin my kids on lock down....ive gotten away wit too much shit cuz my mom think im an angel....i handle drugs and alchol better than most people around me cuz i know my limits...but i dont trust that they will be able to handle shit like me so they aint doin shit...but i think il be more understanding if i found out that they are experimenting with shit
More often than not they are gonna do it anyways, i wouldn't try to encourage it but its bound to happen. My little sister gets fucked up shes 16 when i was 16 i was doing alot worse shit that that and she has goals and shit so i'm not worried about her. I'm more worried about my stupid ass little brothers, i'm trying to keep them involved with sports and school activities cuz i think if they fall into the wrong crowd it could be all bad especially the younger one hes a hardheaded mutherfucker with a bad temper
I don't have kids yet though and when i do i don't think it will be much of a problem cuz my lady has never done any kind of drugs in her life and don't like it when i do so I'll never smoke weed around her hense wont do it around the kids. Eventhough i don't think weed is that serious, it can fuck youngsters up and make em not go to school and shit, did it to me well that and my general middle finger to authority attitude that i still have
I don't have kids yet though and when i do i don't think it will be much of a problem cuz my lady has never done any kind of drugs in her life and don't like it when i do so I'll never smoke weed around her hense wont do it around the kids. Eventhough i don't think weed is that serious, it can fuck youngsters up and make em not go to school and shit, did it to me well that and my general middle finger to authority attitude that i still have
I'd talk to my kids (which I won't ever have) about all that stuff. Parents today try to shelter their kids so that they don't know about anything so they can't make educated decisions.
I wouldn't have a problem if my kid got high or drunk or whatever, but it would be at my residence where I could make sure the fucker was chill.
My parents always told me not to do drugs etc, but they did when they were my age and younger (high school and college). I've talked to my mom and dad recently about that type of shit and they are honest with me now about what they've done and they both know pretty much what I've done...
I think the problem starts when parents set limitations on their children, rather than giving them vital information about the subject that could educate them into making a wise decision for themselves. Parents don't give kids enough credit...but also, parents HAVE to realize that kids are going to experiment with drugs and shit, at least, most of them...unless you convince them that some imaginary being is going to send them to hell for eternity, which is a crock of shit.
I hate parents that shelter their kids....tell the kids how life is, let them know your side, but also remember they are people too, and they are capable of making their own decisions if you give them a chance (and if they fuck up, let them know, and help them through their shit).
Maybe you should ask your po-po friends about alcohol being a drug (or the gov't, or anyone who's ADDICTED YOU FAGGOT). You've got to be the stupidest mother fucker on here. I hope someone mixes bleach with your next drink.
I wouldn't have a problem if my kid got high or drunk or whatever, but it would be at my residence where I could make sure the fucker was chill.
My parents always told me not to do drugs etc, but they did when they were my age and younger (high school and college). I've talked to my mom and dad recently about that type of shit and they are honest with me now about what they've done and they both know pretty much what I've done...
I think the problem starts when parents set limitations on their children, rather than giving them vital information about the subject that could educate them into making a wise decision for themselves. Parents don't give kids enough credit...but also, parents HAVE to realize that kids are going to experiment with drugs and shit, at least, most of them...unless you convince them that some imaginary being is going to send them to hell for eternity, which is a crock of shit.
I hate parents that shelter their kids....tell the kids how life is, let them know your side, but also remember they are people too, and they are capable of making their own decisions if you give them a chance (and if they fuck up, let them know, and help them through their shit).
Maybe you should ask your po-po friends about alcohol being a drug (or the gov't, or anyone who's ADDICTED YOU FAGGOT). You've got to be the stupidest mother fucker on here. I hope someone mixes bleach with your next drink.
I said I wasn't cock smoker. And you don't know shit, you're reading into what I said incorrectly. I just dont' feel like typing out EXACTLY how I would raise kids IF I ever had them (which I'm not).
Fuckin faggot, you always got some shit to say to me but I never say shit to you. You got some problem gangster? Not like I'm the only one that said that shit either.
Plus, I never said that I would teach them how to be responsible, respectful, dependable people. Maybe I should have told you that, so you wouldn't have gotten your panties in a bunch about me having kids (which should be the last thing YOU worry about).
Fuckin faggot, you always got some shit to say to me but I never say shit to you. You got some problem gangster? Not like I'm the only one that said that shit either.
Plus, I never said that I would teach them how to be responsible, respectful, dependable people. Maybe I should have told you that, so you wouldn't have gotten your panties in a bunch about me having kids (which should be the last thing YOU worry about).
More often than not, the kids who are cooped up in the house on lockdown end up being the rebelious badasses...and the ones who had an open relationship with their parents, are able to see eye to eye.
I definitely would rather be the one introducing my kids to the stuff than another kid, who would know about as much as my own kids would. By introducing, I don't mean that I want to be the first one to pass the Dutchie to the left hand side with my children, but rather, being the first one to really put 'em on to game, on how things can affect them negatively, and the consequences that can come...
I definitely would rather be the one introducing my kids to the stuff than another kid, who would know about as much as my own kids would. By introducing, I don't mean that I want to be the first one to pass the Dutchie to the left hand side with my children, but rather, being the first one to really put 'em on to game, on how things can affect them negatively, and the consequences that can come...
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I said I wasn't cock smoker. And you don't know shit, you're reading into what I said incorrectly. I just dont' feel like typing out EXACTLY how I would raise kids IF I ever had them (which I'm not).
Fuckin faggot, you always got some shit to say to me but I never say shit to you. You got some problem gangster? Not like I'm the only one that said that shit either.
Plus, I never said that I would teach them how to be responsible, respectful, dependable people. Maybe I should have told you that, so you would have gotten your panties in a bunch about me having kids (which should be the last thing YOU worry about).
Fuckin faggot, you always got some shit to say to me but I never say shit to you. You got some problem gangster? Not like I'm the only one that said that shit either.
Plus, I never said that I would teach them how to be responsible, respectful, dependable people. Maybe I should have told you that, so you would have gotten your panties in a bunch about me having kids (which should be the last thing YOU worry about).
What did I say that was wrong? What do I always say to you?
I might make a joke once in a while, but I don't recall ever attacking you. Do I call you a cock smoker? A fuckin' faggot?
In that friends who do you wrong thread...I do recall talking to civilly...did I not? I don't call people names unless I feel it's warranted.
Back to the topic...I understand perfectly well what you are saying. I know people that think the same way as you. I grew up with people who's parents did that. And ALL OF THEM are fucked up.
And I was saying what I said in agreement with you...that yes...you SHOULDN'T have kids...not with that type of mentality. I'm not worried about it...that's what the topic is about.
You have come at me sideways multiple times, and you weren't joking. I don't care what you call me, I don't like the shit you say to me, and that's all there is to it. If I have something to say, I'M GONNA SAY IT...whether you like it or not.
I don't remember the thread you're talking about however. You don't seem to get what I meant, STILL. I'm not going to go out and BUY MY KIDS WEED (but i'm not having kids, so it ain't a problem, this is ALL hypothetical, which is why I think you're being a douche, I said I wasn't having them, no need for you to act like I'm a bad person, ASSHOLE).
I said I would make them smoke, drink, under MY ROOF. Which means, I HAVE CONTROL, control over how much, when, who is there, etc. Education (which is bullshit anyway) comes first, even though the education system across the world is fucked up and only trains people to be the same...HOWEVER, it teaches kids responsibility, etc.
My parents were against me doing drugs, but I did them BEHIND THEIR BACK. I would go to my friends house (where her parents weren't home) and we'd all kick it, drink, smoke whatever...sometimes we'd smoke with her mom. Point being, it doesn't really matter what you do as a parent, you HAVE to trust your kid to make the "right" decisions.
It just so happens that I made the "right" decisions on my own. Now I'm about to graduate from college here in a few months.
I never said, "I shouldn't" have kids. I said I'm not going to cause I don't want them. If I did want them, I would be a good parent. Regardless of what you think, since you know me oh so well over the internet.
Maybe you should just put me on IGNORE...unless you like reading what I have to say that much, and hey, I can't blame you if you do.
I dont' feel like typing anymore, it ain't worth it. But I do think you're a complete douche bag.
I don't remember the thread you're talking about however. You don't seem to get what I meant, STILL. I'm not going to go out and BUY MY KIDS WEED (but i'm not having kids, so it ain't a problem, this is ALL hypothetical, which is why I think you're being a douche, I said I wasn't having them, no need for you to act like I'm a bad person, ASSHOLE).
I said I would make them smoke, drink, under MY ROOF. Which means, I HAVE CONTROL, control over how much, when, who is there, etc. Education (which is bullshit anyway) comes first, even though the education system across the world is fucked up and only trains people to be the same...HOWEVER, it teaches kids responsibility, etc.
My parents were against me doing drugs, but I did them BEHIND THEIR BACK. I would go to my friends house (where her parents weren't home) and we'd all kick it, drink, smoke whatever...sometimes we'd smoke with her mom. Point being, it doesn't really matter what you do as a parent, you HAVE to trust your kid to make the "right" decisions.
It just so happens that I made the "right" decisions on my own. Now I'm about to graduate from college here in a few months.
I never said, "I shouldn't" have kids. I said I'm not going to cause I don't want them. If I did want them, I would be a good parent. Regardless of what you think, since you know me oh so well over the internet.
Maybe you should just put me on IGNORE...unless you like reading what I have to say that much, and hey, I can't blame you if you do.
I dont' feel like typing anymore, it ain't worth it. But I do think you're a complete douche bag.
Multiple times...and I wasn't joking? It wasn't warranted? lol...if you say so. That doesn't sound like me.
Answer my question...what do I say to you? What do I say that you don't like...that you feel that I'm coming at you sideways?
Me..."You shouldn't have kids". You..."cock smoker...fucking faggot". I reply...no insults. You..."douche...asshole". And I AM THE BAD GUY?
I guess so.
Again...I understand perfectly well what you are saying. I can read...I'm not retarded.
You did your drugs behind your parents back...you turned out OK. So why would you do things differently?
The people I know that did drugs in their parents house turned out fucked up. So why not do it differently?
I'm not gonna put you on ignore. Just because I don't agree with someone doesn't mean I don't like reading a different point of view...insults and all.
Answer my question...what do I say to you? What do I say that you don't like...that you feel that I'm coming at you sideways?
Me..."You shouldn't have kids". You..."cock smoker...fucking faggot". I reply...no insults. You..."douche...asshole". And I AM THE BAD GUY?
I guess so.
Again...I understand perfectly well what you are saying. I can read...I'm not retarded.
You did your drugs behind your parents back...you turned out OK. So why would you do things differently?
The people I know that did drugs in their parents house turned out fucked up. So why not do it differently?
I'm not gonna put you on ignore. Just because I don't agree with someone doesn't mean I don't like reading a different point of view...insults and all.
I said to put me on ignore so that I don't have to read your comments to me.
And I dont' write down everything you say to me that I think it sideways. It's not THAT important. But if the memory comes back, I'll be sure to let you know!
I just think it's uncalled for, you saying I shouldn't have kids, cause the people YOU KNOW are FUCK UPS. Pay attention, I'm not calling YOU names now, only the people that you know who are idiots.
I still don't think you get exactly what I'm trying to portray here, which is fine, cause I shouldn't expect anyone to understand my vastly superior logic
If you educate your kids, and they understand the consequences etc, I dont' see the problem. Then again, I sure as FUCK would NOT raise my kid to be like every other little stupid bastard out there. Fuck society's views on what's right and wrong, most people don't know shit, and shouldn't be judging others choices.
And I dont' write down everything you say to me that I think it sideways. It's not THAT important. But if the memory comes back, I'll be sure to let you know!
I just think it's uncalled for, you saying I shouldn't have kids, cause the people YOU KNOW are FUCK UPS. Pay attention, I'm not calling YOU names now, only the people that you know who are idiots.
I still don't think you get exactly what I'm trying to portray here, which is fine, cause I shouldn't expect anyone to understand my vastly superior logic
If you educate your kids, and they understand the consequences etc, I dont' see the problem. Then again, I sure as FUCK would NOT raise my kid to be like every other little stupid bastard out there. Fuck society's views on what's right and wrong, most people don't know shit, and shouldn't be judging others choices.
Hey...I appreciate you not calling me names! I don't really care either way though.
Putting people on ignore is lame. If you don't want to read what I have to say...then just don't read it. As for me...I like reading what other people think.
You don't remember what I've said to you...but you know it was bad? It's not that important...but important enough to call me names? Hmmm...interesting.
For the 3rd time...I DO understand what you are saying. I can read what you are typing...it really is not that hard to understand.
You can raise them to be the most respectable little angels on earth. But If you are going to let your kids do drugs in your house...then yes...I think that you shouldn't have kids. But that's just me...it's only 1 man's opinion.
You seem to have turned out fine...but you would still do things differently than what your parents did. I guess I just don't understand why you would switch things up.
Putting people on ignore is lame. If you don't want to read what I have to say...then just don't read it. As for me...I like reading what other people think.
You don't remember what I've said to you...but you know it was bad? It's not that important...but important enough to call me names? Hmmm...interesting.
For the 3rd time...I DO understand what you are saying. I can read what you are typing...it really is not that hard to understand.
You can raise them to be the most respectable little angels on earth. But If you are going to let your kids do drugs in your house...then yes...I think that you shouldn't have kids. But that's just me...it's only 1 man's opinion.
You seem to have turned out fine...but you would still do things differently than what your parents did. I guess I just don't understand why you would switch things up.
I remember you sayings things to me that I didn't think were necessary, but I don't recalled the exact words. But what I do recall, is that most of the things you said were negative, or maybe I took it the wrong way.
I just don't think that telling me I shouldn't have kids is appropriate. I'm not the typical person, and I obviously turned out all right. I mean, I'm graduating from college with a major, 2 minors, and an internship done...plus doing outside shit.
My point is, it's all relative to the individual. I, personally, may have turned out decent enough, but that doesn't mean that if I have a kid, they would be the same. Plus, it would be a live and learn process for me, if I made a mistake, I would try to fix it, or at least communicate with my child that what I did was a mistake and that people should be able to admit when they are wrong...which leads me to say that me calling you names was uncalled for...it just happens sometimes when I get involved with something that I care about/find really interesting.
I would switch things up because I want my kids (hypothetical kids that is) to be able to communicate with me like normal human beings. Granted there would be SOME authority, but saying "I'm the dad and you're the kid, so I'm always right" is some bullshit. Kids know that's bullshit, I knew it was bullshit. I never listened to that type of shit. I've been arrested for some shit that I wont' get into on here, I've done a lot of shit that was uncalled for. And it was because MY parents weren't good at communicating with me, they just ASSUMED that I knew everything (which I thought I did, obviously I was wrong, but I'm gettin better).
If I had kids, I would want to play a more active role in their socialization and growth, rather than just assuming that they know shit, or that school will teach them right from wrong, or whatever. School is a fucking joke, even at the University level.
I just don't think that telling me I shouldn't have kids is appropriate. I'm not the typical person, and I obviously turned out all right. I mean, I'm graduating from college with a major, 2 minors, and an internship done...plus doing outside shit.
My point is, it's all relative to the individual. I, personally, may have turned out decent enough, but that doesn't mean that if I have a kid, they would be the same. Plus, it would be a live and learn process for me, if I made a mistake, I would try to fix it, or at least communicate with my child that what I did was a mistake and that people should be able to admit when they are wrong...which leads me to say that me calling you names was uncalled for...it just happens sometimes when I get involved with something that I care about/find really interesting.
I would switch things up because I want my kids (hypothetical kids that is) to be able to communicate with me like normal human beings. Granted there would be SOME authority, but saying "I'm the dad and you're the kid, so I'm always right" is some bullshit. Kids know that's bullshit, I knew it was bullshit. I never listened to that type of shit. I've been arrested for some shit that I wont' get into on here, I've done a lot of shit that was uncalled for. And it was because MY parents weren't good at communicating with me, they just ASSUMED that I knew everything (which I thought I did, obviously I was wrong, but I'm gettin better).
If I had kids, I would want to play a more active role in their socialization and growth, rather than just assuming that they know shit, or that school will teach them right from wrong, or whatever. School is a fucking joke, even at the University level.
I think parents should educate thier kids so they make the right decisions on thier own. You cant tell a teenager anything they are all dumb fucks, but if you are respectful to them form when they are little kids and are open to them they will do the right thing. When parents give thier kids total freedom to do what they want, or when they put thier kids on lockdown, thier kids are gonna rebel at some point and get in trouble...
MAn first of all I will NEVER had kids..
but IF i ever for some crazy reason did...
I would let them drink once they wre about 16 - 18...
but I mean i'd be drinking together with them..
watching movies. and playing games.. it would be fun....
fuck not letting them drink..
and i'd let them smoke weed..
but no shit like herioin or crack.. i don't think they should do that...
goodnight
but IF i ever for some crazy reason did...
I would let them drink once they wre about 16 - 18...
but I mean i'd be drinking together with them..
watching movies. and playing games.. it would be fun....
fuck not letting them drink..
and i'd let them smoke weed..
but no shit like herioin or crack.. i don't think they should do that...
goodnight