GIRL PREG!NEED ADVICE

[Deuce187]

Well,to make a long story short,me and my girlfriend of 2 years argued big time,we had broke up a few times before...but this time it was something major...long story short...we had been working on a kid...and anywayz....after the last arguement she had moved to south dakota to stay with her mom but shortly after moved to new mexico to stay with her grandma.....Well turns out shes preg. with my kid....but she hasnt told me yet...a mutual friend...that she doesnt know is a mutual friend told me....and well,she plans on having the kid and not ever telling me...but thing is I do wanna be apart of the kids life....well yeah iam confused...and dunno what the fuck to do....any advice is hella apreciated.

 

[mrraskal666]

GO FIND HER MAN!!:classic: DONT TELL US:devious:

 

[Deuce187]

If only it was that easy....I got alot going in my life right now,joining the air force,etc.....and I have no way of getting a hold of her,no number or address.....just know its somewhere in new mexico!

 

[mrraskal666]

HERE GO BE A STALKER PUT THE NAME AND SEARCH IN EVERY HOUSE THAT IT SHOWS UP IN....HEY IM JUST TRYIN TO HELP OUT A FELLOW SICCNESS MEMBER

http://www.whitepages.com/

PLUS IM BORED

 

[MEXCOM]

I think Ant Banks said it best when he said, "And I'll be damed if I lose my ghetto pass, fuck ridin' through the town with the pedal smashed."

Hope that helps.

 

[TROLL]

make sure its really yours, maybe she told that mutual friend a lie so she didnt seem too loose, but as the father you are entitled to see your child.. hope everything turns out for the better

 

[DubbC415]

I think Ant Banks said it best when he said, "And I'll be damed if I lose my ghetto pass, fuck ridin' through the town with the pedal smashed."

Hope that helps.

LMAO...u got me dyin over here...that shit is too funny.

 

[KALYN]

This mutual friend that told you...? they can reach her.. or know someone who can... do what you can to get ahold of her and open the lines of communication but if she really wants to hide from you, youre gonna have to wait for her to reach out... hopefully she's not that selfish and mentally immature to exclude you...
I dont know much about why she left you in the first place... only the two of you do... but that has a lot to do with whether or not this situation is going to change up into a positive...

 

[JLMACN]

its your responsibility to go find that girl and make sure you get RIGHTS to your child. If you both are not together, FINE, but you need to be there for your child.

Good luck.......

5000

 

[[ n a v ]]

its your responsibility to go find that girl and make sure you get RIGHTS to your child. If you both are not together, FINE, but you need to be there for your child.

i agree. btw thank you for wanting to be a responsible father. you're helping society by doing so. follow through and go get yo baby mayn, fuck her if she dont want u to be in his/her life.

 

[JLMACN]

Its my responsiblity....and thank you.

5000

 

[EDJ]

SHOULD OF POSTED THIS TOPIC IN THE SISTA SIDE.

 

[Deuce187]

^^yeah i think imma repost it in there,get better feedback.....

And mane its so fucked up....her friend cant really get ahold of ehr either...it was a letter,and i dont know...but life just cant get no more fucked up then right now....it sucks...what are my rights though,after the kids born,what could i do....

 

[JLMACN]

make sure you name is on the birth certificate (as the father) when the child is born....then you got just as many rights as that girl does.


5000

 

[Deuce187]

and if my name isnt....?

 

[JLMACN]

find her and get a praternity test done (assuming she doesnt abort)...

If that baby has your blood in it then you can get some rights...

5000

 

[Humboldt High]

lawyers, paternity test, and court is in your future then

 

[Doberman]

lawyers, paternity test, and court is in your future then

you aint never lied...shit aint no punk at all.

 

[Likwid]

Man the fuck up and don't make excuses because they will turn to regrets. Get ahold of her and speak with her without trying to argue or putting your bad relation ship into the convo. Try to keep it civil because it may be your kid. Remember, having a kid with someone ties you two together whether in a relationship or not.

 

[I AM]

lawyers, paternity test, and court is in your future then

TAKE THAT BITCH ON MAURY!

Just kidding...but I do agree with what HH said. It'll take some time and money but if you care about being apart of your child's life it will be worth it....however, if you guys got into physical fights, that could put a damper on things...