so today i find out my gandma has about 6 months to live. i knew that she had cancer and all that. i knew she was going to kemo and taking meds, but i guess the meds and shit didnt help and the cancer spread to her spine and liver. so i took my family to go visit her it was really sad knowing that my daughter will never get to know her great grandma and that she will never remember her. fucked me up knownin i aint gonna see her again, it is the second big loss in less the 4 months, i just lost my great uncle awhile back and it fucked me up then bc i never got to say goodbye. at least this time i guess i can do it right
fucked up shit today
- Thread starter WT SAVAGE
- Start date
my grandma and little cousin both got cancer at the same time and both were in the hospital and given slim chances of surviving. somehow my grandma made a full recovery but my cousin did not. it was her second bout with cancer, he shad a brain tumor at 6, had it removed and was in remission, but then at 12 she woke up one day and couldn't move, the cancer came back and was wrapped around her spine as well.
I wish the best for you & your fam.
I wish the best for you & your fam.
sorry to hear about your grandma, i lost mine at a young age and didn't get to know her that well. although i do miss her.
i also lost an aunt who i miss dearly to cancer, she was the youngest of my mom's siblings, so i know how you're feeling...
i hope your grandma recovers, and i hope your daughter spends some quality time with her greatgrandmother...
i also lost an aunt who i miss dearly to cancer, she was the youngest of my mom's siblings, so i know how you're feeling...
i hope your grandma recovers, and i hope your daughter spends some quality time with her greatgrandmother...
WT SAVAGE, I don't know you or anythin, but I lost the last of my grandparents a few months ago to cancer.
goin thru chemo and bein in the final stages of cancer is paaaiinful man, at least from what I observed.
Don't take this the wrong way, I know this aint what you wanna hear, but if the docs say your grandma has 6 months to live and they did everything the could already, try to accept that and don't pray that she lives longer than that. there's a point where you gotta accept that there's no turning back and chemo and medication can't help any more. the next 6 months are gonna be hella painful for her. And I dunno how old your daughter is, but even if she doesn't get to know her great-grandma at least you got your own memories of her to share with your seed. those memories are gonna be better than your daughter's memories of seein her great-grandma in pain.
just my thoughts on it, you might not feel tha same way, but stay up.
goin thru chemo and bein in the final stages of cancer is paaaiinful man, at least from what I observed.
Don't take this the wrong way, I know this aint what you wanna hear, but if the docs say your grandma has 6 months to live and they did everything the could already, try to accept that and don't pray that she lives longer than that. there's a point where you gotta accept that there's no turning back and chemo and medication can't help any more. the next 6 months are gonna be hella painful for her. And I dunno how old your daughter is, but even if she doesn't get to know her great-grandma at least you got your own memories of her to share with your seed. those memories are gonna be better than your daughter's memories of seein her great-grandma in pain.
just my thoughts on it, you might not feel tha same way, but stay up.
i get what ur saying BUT, the fucked up thing is the doctor fucked up and misdignosed (sp) her from the get go, and the same doctor did something similar to my uncle. he was some hippy fuck who could have caught it early but didnt run the right tests. in my uncles case he said my uncle was making up the pain problems, and my uncle ended up gettin his leg cut off. my grandmas been with a new doc ever since the other one fucked up, so i feel if the orignal doc would found it earlier, this would not have happened, in the end i cant do anything so all i can do now is spend time with her until everything is over.
my uncles wife died of breast cancer, shit is no joke man. i hope everything turns out for you man. my best friends sister had cancer at a young age too and she survived. she wasnt supposed to be able to have kids either but she just had her first, a baby boy. sometimes things work man if not it wasnt meant to be. good luck mayne
Man that sucks. Cancer is hella unpredictable. Stay up.
A, I didn't mean "don't pray" as in don't pray that she recovers. I meant don't pray that she lives 8 months instead of 6 months or whatever, because it's just gonna be another 2 months of pain for her. But by all means, pray for a full recovery, cuz miracles do happen!
A, I didn't mean "don't pray" as in don't pray that she recovers. I meant don't pray that she lives 8 months instead of 6 months or whatever, because it's just gonna be another 2 months of pain for her. But by all means, pray for a full recovery, cuz miracles do happen!
