Friends with a Hoe-ish Female???

[Don Hollywood Godzilla]

Does it even work? I can't respect one of my homegirls anymore cuz she changed so much recently. We used to be cool as fuck for years before but im just disgusted by her now!

We went from being friends, to "friends with benefits" to just friends and i'm always lookin out for her cuz she ain't a bum or nothin she's a full time college student but emotionally weak for sure. But I just dont respect hoes at all and i dont even know whether i should just cut the bitch off or just be like whatever about it.

 

[2-0-NINE]

Tell her how you feel, and tell you doing her, and having her chop you up isn't good enough, and that she needs to settle down.

 

[Don Hollywood Godzilla]

Thats the problem about it, i should come at her on a eye to eye level. I just find myself speakin down on her and talkin shit more than anything lately.

 

[kayvee]

regardless if she was a fuck-buddy at one point in life you never give up on a real friend.

~k.

 

[DAT NIGGA TAZZ]

so ur mad that she aint fuckin just you?

 

[D.I.R.B]

Ahhhh the hoe-ish friend. They used to be in plentiful supply. Sigh...

 

[Don Hollywood Godzilla]

so ur mad that she aint fuckin just you?

we dont fuck anymore. im way beyond that.

 

[Don Hollywood Godzilla]

regardless if she was a fuck-buddy at one point in life you never give up on a real friend.

~k.

good point. its just hard to hollar at her about focusing on her school n shit without being disrespectful and coming off as an authority figure.

 

[kayvee]

good point. its just hard to hollar at her about focusing on her school n shit without being disrespectful and coming off as an authority figure.

yeah trust me. i'm there almost everyday, but in the end they will choose the path they want to take. and sometimes you feel like you have to bite your tongue becuase it seems like it goes in one ear and right out the other.

~k.

 

[WXS STOMP3R]

you never give up on a real friend.

~k.

THATS SOME REAL SHIT RIGHT THERE.

 

[I AM]

Thats the problem about it, i should come at her on a eye to eye level. I just find myself speakin down on her and talkin shit more than anything lately.

Must be how you really feel then if that's what you've been doing lately.

So this is just a girl that you were friends with, then you fucked, now you aren't, and it's getting weird?

Talk to her about it...and be completely honest, don't hold back for fear of hurting her feelings. She needs to know the truth about the situation whether or not it hurts.

 

[Don Hollywood Godzilla]

Must be how you really feel then if that's what you've been doing lately.

So this is just a girl that you were friends with, then you fucked, now you aren't, and it's getting weird?

Talk to her about it...and be completely honest, don't hold back for fear of hurting her feelings. She needs to know the truth about the situation whether or not it hurts.

Nah it's not getting weird because we used to fuck, I'd be easily as bothered by the whole thing had we remained regular friends the whole time. I respect women but like i said i have no love for hoes at all, and when i'm lookin at one of my best friends who's turning into a hoe lately I just hit a dead end and wonder what i should do about it.

She's cute and smart but oddly enough fucked up socially, I had to leave parties with her early cuz she get's weird around lots of unfamiliar people. But when one dude zero's in on her she's just submissive, weak like i said. And she ends up regretting and crying for help.

 

[I AM]

Sounds like you might need to let her go so she can grow up by herself and make her own decisions.

Seems like it stresses you out WAY too much to help your friend because she can't help herself.

Some people just don't like large crowds, I know I don't, but I wouldn't "have" to leave because of something so minor. Maybe she needs to go see a shrink and get her head examined to see if she's got a disorder or something...or hell, maybe she's been raped/molested and never told anyone. A lot of girls that are raped/molested turn out to be complete whores (at least the ones I know) and act really weird around people, and mainy of them are submissive like you said she is.

I see it like this....you can either cut her off and make her grow up and make her own decisions...or you can be friends with her and help her as much as you can and stress out about it, and in the end, she still might do the same shit, which would mean you wasted your time trying to help someone that's not even willing to help themself.

If she regrets shit, she should make better choices, and learn from the mistakes. Doesn't seem like she uses her brain all that much.

 

[Gas One]

whatever happened to let a ho be a ho?

and why dont you just pimp her out?
i know thats easier said than done..but you gotta get practice somewhere...

 

[I AM]

Is that piss in your vodka bottle Gas? LOL....

 

[Gas One]

what the fuck sense would that make?

and whos piss is brownish green?

 

[Don Hollywood Godzilla]

Seems like it stresses you out WAY too much to help your friend because she can't help herself.

Pretty much. If she was always like this it wouldnt be much of an issue but this is mostly all recent.


I've come to the conclusion where i'll offer my last piece of advise before I just drop the whole thing, i'm not her dad.

 

[I AM]

It looks like a really dark yellow to me....lol...fuck is it? iced tea? lol..and not everything you say/do makes sense, so I had to ask



Raw....true shit, you aren't her dad, it's not your job to train her to make the "right" decisions....she has to learn that shit on her own, otherwise she won't really learn it...

 

[Gas One]

It looks like a really dark yellow to me....lol...fuck is it? iced tea?

drugs.
in vodka.

 

[Arson]

I got tons of hoe-ish homegirls, but i prefer it that way, never know what can crack off just kicking it.