I aint never had too many official girlfriends... the one's I did, I can still poke. Why... becuase I never leave on bad terms, we just don't fit, and going against the grain gives you splinters. The one's I I went bad on.. I robbed(popped them checks), or did my thang till they got tired and left becuase I didn't show em no attention. That's why I see em, we kick it, let em think about the past... and we do what we use to, and go on about our business. When you get older, the phone conversations grow old, and a simple "Can I come thru yo tilt tonite"(for those of us that don't live they parents or Baby's mamas) works wonders. Mature women, want what they want and don't expect much if that's all they asked for. So if you see one em later, and left on good terms before... they just ask that you lock the door behind yourself when you leave...again.