drinking and driving kills two more of my friends

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As Tuesday's rush hour traffic whizzed by on Highway 99, friends of Matt Fair and Raffi Walker stood in the late afternoon dark, staring into candle flames and remembering.

They had erected the roadside memorial moments earlier to honor 'Mat' and 'Raf,' who were killed early Sunday in a car crash at the highway's intersection with Clark Road in Live Oak.

Walker's mother, stepfather, father and brother looked over the scene, dazed.

"These are the longest days I've ever lived," said Terry Hammonds, Raffi Walker's stepfather.

The two accident victims had been passengers in a Toyota Corolla driven by another of their close friends, Umar Hay, 20.

Hay, according to a California Highway Patrol report, ran a stop sign on Clark Road at about 6 a.m. Sunday, and drove into Highway 99. The car was broadsided by a northbound Ford Explorer.

A railroad grade on Clark Road west of the highway makes the stop sign there — mounted an unusual distance south of the road — visible only at the last moment of approach.

Several of who looked over the scene of the accident Tuesday afternoon, expressed their deep feelings of friendship and their concern for Hay.

Hay had been transported after the accident to Sutter Roseville Medical Center with major injuries, and arrested there for driving under the influence. He was later released.

The driver of the Explorer was taken to Rideout Memorial Hospital with minor injuries and was released.

"We want to tell Umar to hang in there, and to let him know that we're not blaming him," said Steve Lay, 20.

Lay and other friends saw Hay briefly on Monday.

"But we didn't get that point across good enough," Lay said, "We didn't know what to say."

Dustin Menchaca, 20, said he wants to express his condolences to Hay in person, "but we don't know when we're going to see him again," he said.

Damian Walker, Raffi's older brother, had been celebrating his 22nd birthday Sunday in Los Angeles, where he lives, when his phone rang.

"I thought I was getting a birthday call," he said.

Instead, the call brought news of his little brother's and his little brother's friend's death — the worst news he'd received in his own young life.

Damian Walker remembered his brother being extremely close with Matt Fair, who lived in the Walker/Hammond household in Yuba City for a short time. Fair later went to live with his grandmother nearby.

Most of Fair's family members, according to those who know them, have kept to themselves in light of the circumstances.

His father, Richard Fair, said by telephone that he enjoyed dinner with his son on the evening before the accident.

"I think of his shining personality and his sense of humor," Richard Fair said. "I'm going to miss him."

Fair and Walker had a wide circle of friends, many of them classmates from Yuba City High School's Class of 2006.

"Matt was as kindhearted a person as you'd ever want to meet," said Aaron Dressel, 19.

"He was extremely genuine," said Jeremy Roux, 20, of his lost friend.

A memorial will be held for Raffi Walker and Matt Fair at Crossroads Community Church Friday at 11 a.m.

http://www.appeal-democrat.com/news/highway_71306___article.html/clark_road.html
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when will idiots learn?

how do people still do this shit? really.......?
 
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everyone i know does it too...

its really pretty fuckin stupid.....if you got the money to put on drank you should have enough to get a cab if needed.....

one of my boys got 2 duis before his 21st birthday and he still drives drunk with no Ls..

this is whats wrong with the world.....you cant fix dumb
 

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i don't agree with calling anyone whos a drunk driver an idiot..Some of us will sleep in our car if were above the level of tolerent drunk driving...but i understand your loss and i won't hold it against you....rip to your friends...my uncle lost his life because he fell asleep at the road and ran a red light this year..

i drive 2000 miles a month....im a good driver....so i have to be severely intoxicated for myself to be part of traffic issues..i will continue drinking and driving..because i know im good at the shit...but RIP homie
 
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ive allways been the one to bitch to people about drinking and driving before i lost more 5 friends.....

it was never worth it to me....ive been driving since my my 16th birthday and been drinking longer...ive drove buzzed maybe twice...

then i reliazed what a fuckin idiot i was putting other peoples life in jeporady so i can get home "easier"
 

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damn that sucks. my homie died while driving drunk like 10 years ago. anutha homie just got his 7th dui along wit a felony fleeing less than a year after serving a year for his 6th. mandatory 10 years.
 
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i drove after a blackout.. never doing that again. Just not worth it. Id rather walk or sleep in my car, as long as i or someone else doesnt die, i dont lose my L's.. fuck up my record.

my condolences, RIP.
 
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RIP, I'm learning now the hard way, but I'm thankful my irrisponsibility never caused anyone to get hurt. But I understand this is the reason they don't play in DUI cases.
 

Gas One

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yeah driving while blacked out is wack. i dont respect that. but if you can hold it down after a few beers and stay safe im with you. just gotta know to react 4 times earlier than you would when sober....make up for late reaction time, always do the speed limit, dont use your wheel as much to stay straight and always signal...

and take a scenic route if you can....stay away from as many cars as possible if on the freeway..speakign of i saw a dude goign 75 veer off from the fast lane, run into the center divider and crash two cars ahead of me....i didnt stop..i just hope he didnt die and was glad my drunk ass wasnt part of a pileup, because drunk people have thin blood. and i dont wanna buy new interior.
 

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One of my ex college teammates/homeboy just died a couple weeks ago..word is he had some drinks, made a sharp turn and flipped his car...He was trapped inside of his car and couldnt get out...he was burned alive....all bad...
 
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If the driver was drunk, I don't know how they can't blame him for the accident. Yea, it sucks that it happened and I understand they were all friends, but that dude is responsible for two deaths and I would never forgive somebody for that shit. As a matter of fact, if I ever see my best friends cousin I'm gonna break his jaw...

R.I.P to your folks. It's never good to lose somebody, especially when they're young and it could have been prevented.
 
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Sorry to hear man. My uncle was killed by a drunk driver last year and now his 3 boys are without both parents. I do it sometimes, only over short distances on small roads, but it doesn't make it any less stupid of me.
 

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one of the crimes i can say i honestly dont fuck with, but i dont judge folks who do, my reasons are financial, and i wouldnt wanna fuck up a innocent person.