Bettering Yourself
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Yeah I sell my self short with my music too. Im coo with friends, but then a crowd, I won't be as confident. Unless we're just providing background music, but if everyone is relying on us, I don't seem as confident. A little, but still not as much. Also yeah, I let my closest friends just listen to my beats n shit, and they'll always find something to fix. Or the beat never suits them. Then I'll play it to more people, I find out a lotta people actually do like it. I just can never get people on my beats. I make them for myself, but there's shit that people would feel, like some bay slaps.
i hella slowed down on the smoking and drinking, but i still gotta get the money in order.
i hella slowed down on the smoking and drinking, but i still gotta get the money in order.
I need to not drink so much. I'm already up to 7 times this year. I need to strengthen my credit. I also need to work on not procrastinating--now that i'm out of school, that'll be easier. I need to get back to going to the gym 5 times a week--2 isn't enough. And we'll end with, I need to work harder to understand poor people who feel the need to better themselves....because frankly, right now, I could give a fuck about them.
good thread.
i think i need to finally move on and get my ex out of my life. i made a thread in another forum about stayin friends with an ex just to get other views on it. it seems like it is all situational and i think my situation calls for cutting the cord. i will be a better person if i move on and stop holding on to something that didnt work out once already.
i think i need to finally move on and get my ex out of my life. i made a thread in another forum about stayin friends with an ex just to get other views on it. it seems like it is all situational and i think my situation calls for cutting the cord. i will be a better person if i move on and stop holding on to something that didnt work out once already.
I haven't smoked weed in over 2 1/2 years and I'm good. I don't need that shit clouding my vision & thoughts PLUS! I use to get a fucked up attitude the next day...fuck it don't need more drama in my life.
I guess this next one should have gone under the "What have you accomplished?" thread, but here it goes anyway...
I've developed a thick skin when my baby mama be going skits around the house LOL!!!! She'll yell and I'll just stare at her for a little bit and go back to doing what I was doing. It makes her nag less and she'll stop once she see's I don't argue back...I got this shit down packed LOL!!!!
She'll be like, "Well, don't give a shit then."
and I don't LOL!!!!
I guess this next one should have gone under the "What have you accomplished?" thread, but here it goes anyway...
I've developed a thick skin when my baby mama be going skits around the house LOL!!!! She'll yell and I'll just stare at her for a little bit and go back to doing what I was doing. It makes her nag less and she'll stop once she see's I don't argue back...I got this shit down packed LOL!!!!
She'll be like, "Well, don't give a shit then."
and I don't LOL!!!!
I've been opening different bank accounts and dropping like $50 a month from my paycheck in each. That way if times get tight, there's money set aside in different places.
I have been looking into going back to school to get a Master's in Public Administration, that's the last element I'll need to get where I want to with my career.
I'm learning not to stress myself out over things and people that I can't control or influence and accept that sometimes blood isn't thicker than water.
I have been looking into going back to school to get a Master's in Public Administration, that's the last element I'll need to get where I want to with my career.
I'm learning not to stress myself out over things and people that I can't control or influence and accept that sometimes blood isn't thicker than water.
good thread,
Bettering oneself to me is always eternal as an individual experiences progression in the growth of his/her life. With that said, at my stage in my life I often find myself desiring success, but never really taking much action to start where I need to. I always think of it as one day I'll just be where I want to be, but I need to realize that I need to work from the bottom first to be able to be anywhere near the top. Ive realized that Im at the age now that my childhood is past and that I need to really grow to be a man take some responsibilities and make something of my life. One of my biggest inspirations in life is Pac, it blows my mind everytime just trying to fathom how one individual accomplished so much at such a young age. It really inspires me to strive to be a better person and to be successful, even just looking at my parents, it's incredible how they have been able to provide so much for me and how they have bettered our living conditions over the past years. I guess I just need to really start taking my life more serious because I don't want my opportunities to pass me by. I DO want success and I DO want to be somebody in life, not in the sense of having "fame" but in the sense that I will have left this world a better place for my family and loved ones than when I came into this world.
Thats one of my major obstacles that I am trying to seriously deal with right now, just being productive with my time and giving it my all before its too late
Bettering oneself to me is always eternal as an individual experiences progression in the growth of his/her life. With that said, at my stage in my life I often find myself desiring success, but never really taking much action to start where I need to. I always think of it as one day I'll just be where I want to be, but I need to realize that I need to work from the bottom first to be able to be anywhere near the top. Ive realized that Im at the age now that my childhood is past and that I need to really grow to be a man take some responsibilities and make something of my life. One of my biggest inspirations in life is Pac, it blows my mind everytime just trying to fathom how one individual accomplished so much at such a young age. It really inspires me to strive to be a better person and to be successful, even just looking at my parents, it's incredible how they have been able to provide so much for me and how they have bettered our living conditions over the past years. I guess I just need to really start taking my life more serious because I don't want my opportunities to pass me by. I DO want success and I DO want to be somebody in life, not in the sense of having "fame" but in the sense that I will have left this world a better place for my family and loved ones than when I came into this world.
Thats one of my major obstacles that I am trying to seriously deal with right now, just being productive with my time and giving it my all before its too late