i dont ever use the word, but i personally think that the only way you can tell anyone not to say something is if you would tell EVERYONE not to say it. I would never tell anyone not to say cracker, honky, or redneck cause fuck, thats exactly what I am. (well, not a redneck but i could give a fuck still)
what people fail to realize is that equality goes both ways. how you gonna ask for equality, yet at the same time try and prevent others from doing what you think you should be allowed to do?