A serious questions for the married folks
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I'm not married, but, when you look at a relationship and think about your future and you want that person there, that's a good sign.
Who cares about having sex with one person for the rest of your life? If it's not good, you wouldn't be in the relationship anyway.
Like it's been said marriage isn't for everyone. It's a lot of work, but the pay off can be more than you expected or believed possible.
True, but I don't think he's asking cause he wants to get married. If he's asking the Siccness this and is really considering marriage, he's in the wrong fuckin place. lol
He shouldn't have gotten married then. People try to look passed their issues and you have to work them out not ignore them. Otherwise they blow up. People who get divorced likely had issues before they got married but didn't recognize them or deal with them. If you can see an issue blowing up or bothering you down the road, you should either deal with it or get out of the relationship, BEFORE you get married. That's why I won't get married until I've been with a chick for AT LEAST 2-3 years. And at least 1-2 of those years would be spent living together...cause you don't know someone until you live with them day in and day out.
If you care about someone that much you don't need anyone else.
If you're not ready to get married, yeah it's normal to want to go fuck bitches.
I'm 25, and been through some bullshit relationships and a couple good ones. So I know what I deserve in a female and I won't settle for less.
Once you hit a certain age (some people never get there though) you'll realize that fucking bitches, isn't that great. Yeah you get to fuck some different chick, and if that's your thing, marriage probably isn't for you.
Bitches are annoying. Females, can be but have a better head on their shoulders than "bitches, hoes, cunts, or broads."
If you met the right female, who had her shit together, had her own money to spend, didn't mind spending it on you as long as you weren't a total fuck bag, etc etc....I'm sure you'd change your tune.
I never wanted to get married after this btich I went out with 4 years ago, cheating skanky ass nasty cunt WHORE. LOL....
But....like I said, I'm 25 and my priorities are changing. I dno't give a fuck about fucking a lot of females anymore. Not that I ever really cared too much. I'm not a fuckin hoe anyway. I'm pretty selective and picky, except that whore ex of mine. lol....But everyone gets ONE skeeze. HA.
Anyway, if you don't want to fuck just one chick, and have her be loyal (at least you hope, otherwise you wouldn't be marrying a skank), that's up to you.
Waking up alone after a "night of fun" when you're 35 will get pretty fucking old though. Especially when you get to do everything for yourself, rather than having someone there to live life with you.
Who cares about having sex with one person for the rest of your life? If it's not good, you wouldn't be in the relationship anyway.
Like it's been said marriage isn't for everyone. It's a lot of work, but the pay off can be more than you expected or believed possible.
True, but I don't think he's asking cause he wants to get married. If he's asking the Siccness this and is really considering marriage, he's in the wrong fuckin place. lol
He shouldn't have gotten married then. People try to look passed their issues and you have to work them out not ignore them. Otherwise they blow up. People who get divorced likely had issues before they got married but didn't recognize them or deal with them. If you can see an issue blowing up or bothering you down the road, you should either deal with it or get out of the relationship, BEFORE you get married. That's why I won't get married until I've been with a chick for AT LEAST 2-3 years. And at least 1-2 of those years would be spent living together...cause you don't know someone until you live with them day in and day out.
If you care about someone that much you don't need anyone else.
If you're not ready to get married, yeah it's normal to want to go fuck bitches.
I'm 25, and been through some bullshit relationships and a couple good ones. So I know what I deserve in a female and I won't settle for less.
Once you hit a certain age (some people never get there though) you'll realize that fucking bitches, isn't that great. Yeah you get to fuck some different chick, and if that's your thing, marriage probably isn't for you.
Bitches are annoying. Females, can be but have a better head on their shoulders than "bitches, hoes, cunts, or broads."
If you met the right female, who had her shit together, had her own money to spend, didn't mind spending it on you as long as you weren't a total fuck bag, etc etc....I'm sure you'd change your tune.
I never wanted to get married after this btich I went out with 4 years ago, cheating skanky ass nasty cunt WHORE. LOL....
But....like I said, I'm 25 and my priorities are changing. I dno't give a fuck about fucking a lot of females anymore. Not that I ever really cared too much. I'm not a fuckin hoe anyway. I'm pretty selective and picky, except that whore ex of mine. lol....But everyone gets ONE skeeze. HA.
Anyway, if you don't want to fuck just one chick, and have her be loyal (at least you hope, otherwise you wouldn't be marrying a skank), that's up to you.
Waking up alone after a "night of fun" when you're 35 will get pretty fucking old though. Especially when you get to do everything for yourself, rather than having someone there to live life with you.
ya I AM i feel you. its not that I'm addicted to fuckin sluts I actually dont really troll my dick around as much as some of my friends. Ive just been thinkin bout this shit a lot lately cause I got a girl that ive been datin for a long time who wants to be married with kids and I am getting older (29 now).
It just seems like this modern Chirstianity influenced conservative american culture puts all this pressure on dudes to get married, have a family and stay with that person for the rest of their lives. But that entire concept is just an invention of man and the church mostly.
If mother nature were in charge dudes would be just getting all kinds of girls pregneant and girls would just be taking care of all their kids. I know this happens even today but it is not what society views as normal or healthy or ideal.
It just sucks cause I think that most men are naturally wired to just want to impregnate like 3-4 women throughout their lives and care for them and their kids.
its like society says do it one way but nature says different and I'm just wonderin how folks who are married deal with this, or if it is even an issue for them.
It just seems like this modern Chirstianity influenced conservative american culture puts all this pressure on dudes to get married, have a family and stay with that person for the rest of their lives. But that entire concept is just an invention of man and the church mostly.
If mother nature were in charge dudes would be just getting all kinds of girls pregneant and girls would just be taking care of all their kids. I know this happens even today but it is not what society views as normal or healthy or ideal.
It just sucks cause I think that most men are naturally wired to just want to impregnate like 3-4 women throughout their lives and care for them and their kids.
its like society says do it one way but nature says different and I'm just wonderin how folks who are married deal with this, or if it is even an issue for them.
The fact you're thinking about this, is a good thing. Shows you ARE mature. Cause you're thinking about the pros and cons of your actions, and tryign to figure out what will make you happy.
I agree, religion placed a lot on marriage. But you don't have to get married to spend your life with someone. Marriage is just a nice tax break.
I'd spend the rest of my life with someone without being married, cause that word means nothing to me. I'm not religious and I wouldn't get married in a church if I did. I'd go to a courthouse.
But, FUCK society man. Fuck em. Do what makes YOU happy. FUCK everyone else. And by that I mean don't let people walk on you to do what they want. If you feel right doing something, DO IT. And if it's not right, karma will show you, and you'll need to learn from it.
If you're not one for marriage, talk to your girl about it. Talk to her about your concerns and all that. If she's not willing to listen then she needs to kick rocks. But if she understands then that's another story.
Don't do it cause you think you'll miss out. Do it cause you want to. Don't get married otu of guilt, or worry you won't have someone. Get married cause you WANT to be with that person ONLY for the rest of your life.
People get married cause "they're suppose to" all the time. And all those religious faggots are the 50% divorce rate...cause DUN DUN DUN....they aren't as religious and abiding as they thought they were. They did what they were "suppose to do" rather than what they wanted or felt was right.
It's your life man, live it how YOU want to. Fuck everyone else. At the end of the day, YOU answer to YOU. Unless you get married. Then you answer to your wife.
That's just how it is. Compromise, companionship, etc. Can't have marriage without compromise. And if you aren't willing to be selfless for another individual you shouldn't get married.
Just my 'Input.'
I agree, religion placed a lot on marriage. But you don't have to get married to spend your life with someone. Marriage is just a nice tax break.
I'd spend the rest of my life with someone without being married, cause that word means nothing to me. I'm not religious and I wouldn't get married in a church if I did. I'd go to a courthouse.
But, FUCK society man. Fuck em. Do what makes YOU happy. FUCK everyone else. And by that I mean don't let people walk on you to do what they want. If you feel right doing something, DO IT. And if it's not right, karma will show you, and you'll need to learn from it.
If you're not one for marriage, talk to your girl about it. Talk to her about your concerns and all that. If she's not willing to listen then she needs to kick rocks. But if she understands then that's another story.
Don't do it cause you think you'll miss out. Do it cause you want to. Don't get married otu of guilt, or worry you won't have someone. Get married cause you WANT to be with that person ONLY for the rest of your life.
People get married cause "they're suppose to" all the time. And all those religious faggots are the 50% divorce rate...cause DUN DUN DUN....they aren't as religious and abiding as they thought they were. They did what they were "suppose to do" rather than what they wanted or felt was right.
It's your life man, live it how YOU want to. Fuck everyone else. At the end of the day, YOU answer to YOU. Unless you get married. Then you answer to your wife.
That's just how it is. Compromise, companionship, etc. Can't have marriage without compromise. And if you aren't willing to be selfless for another individual you shouldn't get married. Just my 'Input.'
one of my best friends just told me this last friday that him and his wife were gettin a divorce, and their one year anniversary was on sunday. we all kinda knew it wasent goin to last.
should i of said something to him before they got married? i was a groomsman in his wedding, and it just wasent my place to say anything. even though i knew they were complete opposites and they wouldnt stay married.
should i of said something to him before they got married? i was a groomsman in his wedding, and it just wasent my place to say anything. even though i knew they were complete opposites and they wouldnt stay married.
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I've had that happen before, not over a sneeze though. But similar situation.
lol...i got green eyes and females always say, "you have the most beautiful eyes," to which I reply, "Thanks, I know." lol...not all the time am I that way, most of the time I say thanks...but if it's someone I've known and they just notice I'll be an ass.
Man, I would have said some shit. But it's known, that I speak my mind freely.
My best friend was about to marry his girl, and I talked him out of proposing.
Now she is addicted to OC's and trying to get sober with his help. She has NO job, and does nothing all day. She "takes care of the house."
But I told her ass last night, when my boy was passin out, "YOu need to get fucking sober. You're fucking up your relationship with him, and you're bringing yourself and him down. And you aren't going to be together if this shit keeps going on."
Don't pussy foot around shit. It's better to save your boy from a year long fucked up marriage, PLUS a divorce....And if he says, "fuck you" then let him be and live his life. Then he would have come to you sayin, "man you were right I'm sorry."
Instead, now he's getting a divorce and the bitch probably gets half his shit.
GREAT JOB there! lol.....Next time, speak your mind.
THOSE WHO MIND DON'T MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT' MIND.
Which speaks volumes about peeps on here too.
lol...i got green eyes and females always say, "you have the most beautiful eyes," to which I reply, "Thanks, I know." lol...not all the time am I that way, most of the time I say thanks...but if it's someone I've known and they just notice I'll be an ass.
Man, I would have said some shit. But it's known, that I speak my mind freely.
My best friend was about to marry his girl, and I talked him out of proposing.
Now she is addicted to OC's and trying to get sober with his help. She has NO job, and does nothing all day. She "takes care of the house."
But I told her ass last night, when my boy was passin out, "YOu need to get fucking sober. You're fucking up your relationship with him, and you're bringing yourself and him down. And you aren't going to be together if this shit keeps going on."
Don't pussy foot around shit. It's better to save your boy from a year long fucked up marriage, PLUS a divorce....And if he says, "fuck you" then let him be and live his life. Then he would have come to you sayin, "man you were right I'm sorry."
Instead, now he's getting a divorce and the bitch probably gets half his shit.
GREAT JOB there! lol.....Next time, speak your mind.
THOSE WHO MIND DON'T MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT' MIND.
Which speaks volumes about peeps on here too.
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i dont have all the answers homie but I know for sure after watching friends dont let the punani cloud your better judgement, being locked down by a broad whos jealous and crazy as shit even though she rides like a stallion
and if they are filthy and dont do their laundry and shit, clean their house, chances are your shit wont get done either, same goes for finances if they cant control their spending, you gonna be on a long ride homie
im not married either just some observations
and if they are filthy and dont do their laundry and shit, clean their house, chances are your shit wont get done either, same goes for finances if they cant control their spending, you gonna be on a long ride homie
im not married either just some observations
I know it doesn`t answer the question, but like I know you`ve heard before, when you know, you`ll know.
I was with my wife for 4 years before we got married, and next year will be our 10 yr wedding anniversary. Being a product of a split home as a child, she was very aware of my feelings about marriage, and that if I did get married, I wanted it to be the last time. I don`t care too much for all that step-parent shit.
I think what worked for us, we both had some fucked up shit happen in our childhood. We quickly became like a 'bonnie & clyde' and have been riding for each other for almost 15 yrs now. The different stories that we could tell about things that have happened during that time could take all night. But like it has been said, making a relationship last this long can sometimes be hard work, but not all the time. If she is the "one", trust me folks, it isn`t that hard at all. You`ll see that she completes you in ways no other person can do. Not even your parents, siblings, homies, no one.
Finding someone like that is the hardest part of it. I`ve been blessed to have my wife. Hopefully you`ll have the same end result, because again, just like other posts on here, I`ve witnessed some divorces since my marriage. And another one might not last much longer either. Why some people get married because they think it`ll bring them closer or some shit is flat out retarded.
And for the record, I didn`t know how to be faithful to any relationship until I met my wife, which I`ll admit I cheated in the beginning, too. It was what I was used to doing, but for the first time ever, I actually felt bad about it. That was how I knew. (Think the movie Boomerang. Fits me real good.) Now I`m not saying go cheat on your girl to find out if you feel bad, but if she`s the one, it`s almost like an instinct, you`ll just know inside.
I was with my wife for 4 years before we got married, and next year will be our 10 yr wedding anniversary. Being a product of a split home as a child, she was very aware of my feelings about marriage, and that if I did get married, I wanted it to be the last time. I don`t care too much for all that step-parent shit.
I think what worked for us, we both had some fucked up shit happen in our childhood. We quickly became like a 'bonnie & clyde' and have been riding for each other for almost 15 yrs now. The different stories that we could tell about things that have happened during that time could take all night. But like it has been said, making a relationship last this long can sometimes be hard work, but not all the time. If she is the "one", trust me folks, it isn`t that hard at all. You`ll see that she completes you in ways no other person can do. Not even your parents, siblings, homies, no one.
Finding someone like that is the hardest part of it. I`ve been blessed to have my wife. Hopefully you`ll have the same end result, because again, just like other posts on here, I`ve witnessed some divorces since my marriage. And another one might not last much longer either. Why some people get married because they think it`ll bring them closer or some shit is flat out retarded.
And for the record, I didn`t know how to be faithful to any relationship until I met my wife, which I`ll admit I cheated in the beginning, too. It was what I was used to doing, but for the first time ever, I actually felt bad about it. That was how I knew. (Think the movie Boomerang. Fits me real good.) Now I`m not saying go cheat on your girl to find out if you feel bad, but if she`s the one, it`s almost like an instinct, you`ll just know inside.
