Never bought a girl a drink in my life.
Never, ever paid for pussy in any way.
Yes Ive had girls kick down bread.
Yes Ive had girls pay for shit.
You spend money on dates because you want to. A relationship, even a fling or whatever is about mutual respect. Ive enjoyed myself doin free bullshit with girls, and I've enjoyed myself doin shit obviously that costs money. A nice hotel room, amusement parks, shows, I dont give a fuck what you do...it all costs money.
All these dudes like 'yea well you gotta pay for the movie and shit anyway you spend mo money on the pussy when you datin' is male chicken heads. They like 'damn dude i bought the movie now why can't I get the pussy?' The world dont work that way. Unless you dating a movie, dinner, and ice cream prostitute.
Or you like a grown up version of Baby Huey. 'Me spend money, me want gooey gooey'. I guess if I was hella dumb I'd see it that way.
On top of all that, if you so broke or you dont feel like paying for shit, there are girls out there who will either 1. Pay for shit for you, 2. Not care and be broke with you. If you lack the ability to find them, that's on you.