that's pretty rough man, you have my sympathy
if I was in your position, I'd tell my daughter look, I will give you that wedding money for a down payment on a house instead of wasting it on a party for 1 night. Can do the wedding, village style at home
The dems calling healthcare 'a human right' does not render immune to scarcity. Most of them want to abolish private hc all together.
Best option is to have a public system that competes with the private industry to drive prices down, but slowly implemented.