I got a better idea to teach her a lesson. . Finish the transaction. "Pay" with paypal. I use that term pay very loosely when it involves the scum of a company ebay/paypal. Then use your feedback privs to negative him, & then just open a claim up. He'll lose money, etc and have a negative and won't be able to do a dam thing about it. I got other ways but for your purposes this will do.