ParkBoyz said:
I agree 100%.. The only problem with that is the childish nature of the black parent. It's a vicious cycle brought down from slavery; the same ignorance, low self-esteem, lack of courage, and lack of responsibility that can be seen in these kids, can be reflected in the house hold (not in some cases, but in a lot) as well.. These are the same parents and grandparents that used to get sprayed with fire hoses, beaten down, locked away, kicked out of public places, humiliated, taunted, teased, and I shouldn't have to bring up Crack and Heroin. Someone has to save the parents first, that's why we need better organization as a community, and strong leaders. It's almost like every nigga for his/her self and no one sees the big picture. Not to mention that we hate each other and feed into our own stereotypes. It's extremely sad for me to say at this point, but I feel more comfortable around other races than my own sometimes (as far as safety goes).. Too rebellious, rebellion is good, imo, but not when there's rebellion vs. rebellion, or rebels rebelling against rebels to see who's the biggest rebel. That macho shit is useless, because when it gets to that point you're not a rebel anymore, just a criminal. Too much confusion in the black culture. It's like, we refuse to fully accept Euro culture, yet we don't have one so we make up shit as we go along, calling it "black".. I can't emphasis enough about how important Africa is in attaining our identity. I don't give a fuck if it takes a DNA test and a trip back, we need a starting point and don't have one. That's why in a way, things are getting worse, (not the condition so much, but the attitude/consciousness).... But ultimately I agree with you, only if we can somehow get it into these parents heads that education, history, and common sense for these kids will get them anywhere that they need/want to go. Africa is a different story, they basically just got sucked dry, and still are.
The blue is where I don't. I'm a data guy, a numbers cruncher guy (as you can see from that other thread about black-white polarization) so the reason I can't accept the blue statements is b/c as far as I know (I will admit, I do not have the data to prove this statement, if you do or know where to get it, let me know) the family structure stuff (translation black kids that actually grow up w/ a father) was actually better for most of the 20th century. I would love to know the percentage of black kids who grew up with a father for every decade since slavery. If those percentages have remained relatively constant since emancipation, then I would agree with slavery as an explanation blue portion. But I don't think they have, I think they've gone down in the last 30 years.
Just wondering, where did you get your college degree? You seem like a product of the UC system to me. Whatever institution it is, I now have a lot of respect for.
My own college was about 20% black, which is very unusual for a place that costs $40,000 a year. HOWEVER of those 20%, about 15% were from Africa/Jamaica/Bahamas, 4% were African American females, leaving only 1 out of 20 of the 'black people' as African American men. I'm not lying when I say saw more African American men robbed students in the area surrounding campus in St. Paul MN than were attending classes at the school.