BABY MAMA DRAMA/CHILD SUPPORT...
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DAMN WHERE $HOULD I $TART... WELL I HAVE A 3 YR OLD LIL GIRL BUT I NEVER MET HER. WHY?? CUZ IT$ A LONG $TORY BUT ILL TRY TO MAKE IT $HORT. 3 YR AGO I HOOKD UP WIT THI$ 34 YR OLD COWORKER N $HE DIDNT TOLD ME THAT $HE TOLD ME THAT $HE COULDNT GET PREGNANT. AL$O $HE WA$ TRYIN TO GET HER 6TH BABY BACK. YE$ I $AID 6TH BABY $O I AL$O HEARD $HE WA$ ME$$ING AROUND. DAY CAME WHEN $HE TOLD ME THAT $HE WA$ PREGNANT N I TOLD HER THAT I DIDNT BELIEVE HER CUZ $O N $O. $HE GOT HEATED N $HE TOLD ME THAT $HE DONT NEED MY MONEY N MY HELP N THAT IM NOT GOING TO C MY BABY. NEXT THING I KNEW WA$ THAT $HE LEFT THE COMPANY N WENT TO MOVE TO WA$HINGTON $TATE. I NEVER HEARD FROM THER AGAIN TILL I $AW A PIC OF HER CUZ HER MOMA WORK$ IN THE $AME COMPANY A$ ME I KNEW IT WA$ HER MOM CUZ OF HER NAME $O $HE GOT IN CONTACT WIT HER DAUGHTER N $HE TOLD HER THAT $HE $TILL DONT WANT NOTHING TO DO WIT ME. $O NOW IM WRITING MY BABY MOMA A LETTER N C WAT $HE HA$ TO $AY. I DONT WANT TO GO THRU COURT BUT IF $HE WANT$ IT LIKE DAT THEN DATZ WAT I GOTTA DO TO C MY LIL ONE. ITZ EITHER THE EAZY WAY OR THE HARD WAY N I GUE$$ $HE WANTZ IT THE HARD WAY. DAMN BABY MOMA$ :devious:
My husband has kids by two different women. One of them is hell cool and will let me pick up the boys whenever I want, and allowed me to establish my own relationship with the kids while their dad was locked up. The other one, though, is a crazy bitch who told his parole officer that I pulled up next to her at a stop light on Christmas morning and tried to shoot her. Showed him the bullet holes and everything....LMAO....she is a stupid ghetto, welfare, 3 kids and only knows who 1 of the daddies is ass bitch and I hope to one day take custody of her son by him.
On a side note, he has his child support deducted from his check. Am I wrong for tellin him not to give either one of them hoes any additional money for the boys? I mean, we buy clothes, shoes, pay for little league and other activities. I don't think giving them any additional cash is neccessary, especially when they call on friday nights (payday, the only time they call) and we all know DAMN WELL they ain't tryin to buy nothing for the kids, but get themselves a blunt and a bottle.
On a side note, he has his child support deducted from his check. Am I wrong for tellin him not to give either one of them hoes any additional money for the boys? I mean, we buy clothes, shoes, pay for little league and other activities. I don't think giving them any additional cash is neccessary, especially when they call on friday nights (payday, the only time they call) and we all know DAMN WELL they ain't tryin to buy nothing for the kids, but get themselves a blunt and a bottle.
DAMN....I'm havin' my kids in Idaho next time!! I pay $400 a month for ONE child, including insurance...NOT including the day to day expenses of raising a child. I owe almost $40,000 in child support because on the low, my daughter's Mom was getting monies for my daughter even though I was there takin' care of business. My BM told the State that ya boy was no where to be found, and she needed financial help, EVEN THOUGH I WAS LIVIN" WITH THE BREEZY!! I find out after our relationship, that she had been gettin' money even though we were in the same house for all those years that she said I wasn't around. The Stae started attachin' my wages and shit, I was like HOLD ON MANE....what's up with this? they explained my situation, and I flipped...my BM straight up lied to the State, now I have to come up with proof of the deception. I gave the state all of my tax info for the past several years, including addresses. I told them to compare the addresses of where my stuff goes to, and look at the address you are sending that assistance to...same crib. How can I be deadbeat dad, when my ass has been there the whole time?? After further review, the State said that I for me to lower this amount, I have to file charges of welfare fraud on my BM....I ain't gonna do that mane....even thought they tried to lock my ass up, take my licence and jack up my credit report...my daughter wouldn't understand why her Mom is lock deezy....why put her through that? So, here I am payin' all this bread.....go figure.
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shit like that makes me mad.
these dudes buy the best shit for themselves, while their kids have nothing. I bet if some man was to step up and take care of you and your boys, he'd bitch about a another man bein' around his kids, huh? classic. I have no respect for dudes that don't take care of their children.
much love to Kayln, Dana's crazy ass & Cannibal Crow for holdin' it down.
God Bless.
these dudes buy the best shit for themselves, while their kids have nothing. I bet if some man was to step up and take care of you and your boys, he'd bitch about a another man bein' around his kids, huh? classic. I have no respect for dudes that don't take care of their children.
much love to Kayln, Dana's crazy ass & Cannibal Crow for holdin' it down.
God Bless.
court order says I pay 150$ to Fam. Responsibility Office- they forward the $ to my babymoms..BUT thats just on the books. I give her WAY more than that; thats just what Im entitled to pay because of my so called "financial situation". U gotta b cool wit ur babymoms and explain to her then ends and outs of what ur doin in terms of finances so she understands and doesnt take legal measures (not in either of ur best interests) at the same time take care of ur child and keep her comfortable and happy.
None of this applies to u if ur a deadbeat.
None of this applies to u if ur a deadbeat.
In Idaho... child support is based on BOTH parents wages, how often the children are with each parent, etc.. when we went in (years ago) for the state to determine what dude should pay- he was unemployed, living with his mom, he had my two boys plus his other son... I was working for Ford... making cool money- he had an attorney, I didnt figure I needed one with his domestic battery charges, etc... umm no. He ended up paying $140/mo for both AND he was awarded the tax exemptions for BOTH.... because his attorney stated he had the kids Friday morning thru Sunday evening and every other Wednesday, alternating holidays, etc....
All bullshit... to make a long story short.. now he actually has a job and complains and complains that I'm breakin' him for the $140.. I told him to sign over his rights and cut... he wont and I have no idea why... I got in dude's ass about the tax exemptions and I been claiming one of them- he just got remarried and had another baby so I told him starting 2006 he wont be claiming either of my boys- he knows I'm not playing.
If this guy was just good to my boys- I wouldnt trip.. I'd take him off CS because we can make it fine without his lil money but instead this guy pops up to make false promises and disapoints my babies every time he comes down long enough to make an appearance so I use that money to buy the extras he promises and never delivers.
