When I lived in New York, I used to talk to a grip of girls online and inevitably ended up meeting a bunch of them, but there were 3 that appeared to be BAD that strung me along for way too long and I should've known better. I guess I didn't really care since it wasn't like they were the only girls I was tryin to get with and I was still getting other girls they didn't know about so it didn't really matter. Any time that it came time for us to meet, they always had some lame excuse as to why we couldn't meet up and all 3 eventually ended up telling me that they loved me without even meeting me (warning sign already).
1 girl that strung me along forever, I called her bluff and got played for a sucka but at least I caught her lying. I can't remember why exactly, but she'd given me her actual address. She lived about 5 hours away from me so I wasn't going to drive up there just to see her but I ended up having training not too far away and I'd never been to upstate NY so I said screw it and drove the extra distance to see her face to face. I figured if I was in the area, she couldn't keep bs'ing me and if she did, I would just stop talking to her. She freaks out when I tell her I'm close to her town and tries to come up with some lie. She eventually says she'll meet me. Girl is fat. Straight up. She was wearing a leather coat that looked like it was screaming to get off of her skin. She then said she had a health problem and it was still her in those pictures but she just looks different now. Wow. I'd briefly thought about hittin it and leaving town to never see her again but I couldn't even bring myself to do it. It's all bad. Upstate New York was nice that time of year though lol
Another one I never actually met. Same story. Probably the most convincing of the 3. I think the biggest problem was, she was about to move to the area and was really excited and I met some other girl that I was diggin that same week. Girl bugged out and said her feelings were too hurt. This ended up being a nightmare of a situation and drug on way too long.
The last was some girl, said she was 20, blonde, model, bangin.... She was supposedly seeing a dude when I first started talking to her so she just wanted to be friends. Like a month later, she says they broke up and she hits me up crying. Said she really needs a friend. Said she wants to meet up but then backs out at the last second. I'm thinkin, this is the perfect time to play the rebound like Rodman and I was tryin to throw her the rod, man. She was always hella busy but kept saying she wanted to meet up but couldn't find the time. She tricked me cause she was really pushing trying to meet me, I wasn't. Then some dude on myspace sends me an email and says, hey, that girl ain't real man. There's this website that a kinds of girls create fake profiles off of other girls pictures and this one girl had her pictures stolen by all kinds of girls. Sure enough, there was a grip of pictures she'd used. So I called it out on her and she tried to play it off for a couple days then confessed. She wasn't blonde, she was fat and asian. Said she looked like Janet Jackson, got out the car lookin more like Freddie Jackson type thing. Couldn't believe it. The voice didn't match the face, or the girth. I ended up meeting her and......... I don't wanna talk about what may or may not have happened :cheeky:
Met a grip of cool girls online though. Some officially bad beezies and even my wife but also met a grip of uglier than their pictures would suggest type girls or just flat out crazy. I guess it's no different than a night at the club
1 girl that strung me along forever, I called her bluff and got played for a sucka but at least I caught her lying. I can't remember why exactly, but she'd given me her actual address. She lived about 5 hours away from me so I wasn't going to drive up there just to see her but I ended up having training not too far away and I'd never been to upstate NY so I said screw it and drove the extra distance to see her face to face. I figured if I was in the area, she couldn't keep bs'ing me and if she did, I would just stop talking to her. She freaks out when I tell her I'm close to her town and tries to come up with some lie. She eventually says she'll meet me. Girl is fat. Straight up. She was wearing a leather coat that looked like it was screaming to get off of her skin. She then said she had a health problem and it was still her in those pictures but she just looks different now. Wow. I'd briefly thought about hittin it and leaving town to never see her again but I couldn't even bring myself to do it. It's all bad. Upstate New York was nice that time of year though lol
Another one I never actually met. Same story. Probably the most convincing of the 3. I think the biggest problem was, she was about to move to the area and was really excited and I met some other girl that I was diggin that same week. Girl bugged out and said her feelings were too hurt. This ended up being a nightmare of a situation and drug on way too long.
The last was some girl, said she was 20, blonde, model, bangin.... She was supposedly seeing a dude when I first started talking to her so she just wanted to be friends. Like a month later, she says they broke up and she hits me up crying. Said she really needs a friend. Said she wants to meet up but then backs out at the last second. I'm thinkin, this is the perfect time to play the rebound like Rodman and I was tryin to throw her the rod, man. She was always hella busy but kept saying she wanted to meet up but couldn't find the time. She tricked me cause she was really pushing trying to meet me, I wasn't. Then some dude on myspace sends me an email and says, hey, that girl ain't real man. There's this website that a kinds of girls create fake profiles off of other girls pictures and this one girl had her pictures stolen by all kinds of girls. Sure enough, there was a grip of pictures she'd used. So I called it out on her and she tried to play it off for a couple days then confessed. She wasn't blonde, she was fat and asian. Said she looked like Janet Jackson, got out the car lookin more like Freddie Jackson type thing. Couldn't believe it. The voice didn't match the face, or the girth. I ended up meeting her and......... I don't wanna talk about what may or may not have happened :cheeky:
Met a grip of cool girls online though. Some officially bad beezies and even my wife but also met a grip of uglier than their pictures would suggest type girls or just flat out crazy. I guess it's no different than a night at the club